Venting... Is it just me or do more women get pregnant when they aren't expecting to rather than the…

Venting...

Is it just me or do more women get pregnant when they aren't expecting to rather than the ones who have been trying? I already have a beautiful 2 year old little boy and I absolutely love him to death! But when I got pregnant, I was in no position to be having a child. I was not married, my ex was a loser, and I was too much in my "party phase". Finding out I was pregnant turned my whole life around. I stopped partying, lost all my "friends", started going back to church and just lived just for my son. I met my husband when my son was 7 months old. My husband is the best man I have ever met! He's the sweetest man and he's a wonderful father to my son. Now I am married, I'm a stay at home mom, we have a beautiful house, financially stable, but yet, we can't get pregnant! I'm finally in a good position to have another child and I CANT! It's killing me! Anyone else know how this feels? Feel free to vent. No negativity or judging tho.