Forcing to go to baby shower
DHs cousins baby shower is this weekend and DH has to work. It's an hour and a half away and I would have to bring both kids with me. We told his parents we really couldn't afford to go but I would still get her a gift and send it along with them. 4 times his mom has said something about me going to the baby shower and she won't give up. She said she would help with the kids but she has done this before and never actually helped. Idk why she won't get the hint.
The last time she said something she called my husband! She already knows he has to work, I don't get why she keeps bringing it up though. I'm at the point of not answering cause she really doesn't get the hint
Let her know that you aren't going instead of giving reasons as to why you can't.