Kind of hurt
My friend of about 3-4 years now texted me yesterday and told me she wishes I wasn't pregnant cause she misses us going out and drinking and having a good time. I took that into offense cause I'm already a mother who didn't go out often because of my daughter. Am I taking this overboard or was this rude of her?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I can't believe it My cousin stayed with me rent free from September 2015 to April 2016 and her stuff is still in my apartment. She's been saying she was going to come get her stuff for months. She text me this morning saying that she was going to come and get her stuff soon, and I asked her if I could have her air mattress. She tried to charge me $60 for it. The air mattress sells new for $35 on amazon and she didn't even pay $60 for it. I didn't respond and she just text me saying the $60 was for a microwave she bought me and her air mattress. When she got the microwave, it was a gift. Then when my son was in the hospital from October to January out of town, I was going to get my internet service turned off until I returned home. My cousin was doing school work online, so I paid for it while I was away so she could use it. I'm trying to figure out a response to her. ?
I wish I had friends that I could go out with and take our kids out to play or aquariums or something lol me and my kids are always in the house.. It would be nice to go out sometimes 😆
(Thread Closed) Let’s go out with a bang Let all the dramas unfold! I blame Jessica Alba
Motherhood ripped from me again... I went for my Anatomy Scan on Friday @ 20wks. I went in expecting to find out if my baby is a boy or girl, but came out feeling like I'm going to die.
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It's pretty inconsiderate. You're baby is much more important than going out drinking... I assume she doesn't have kids
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My best friend from high school says the same thing to me all the time since my son was born and I find it really offensive because my family is much more important than "having a good time at the bar"
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That's very immature of your friend. You're not overreacting at all. You are just in different places in life, you need to be around people that are in your stage of life. Sometimes people grow and become extremely different, you shouldn't feel bad for growing up and stepping up to your responsibilities.
Whatheshell ·
Yeah she doesn't have any children. What confuses me is she is trying to get pregnant. So why would she say that? I don't care to go out to the bars. I'm over that part of life and would much rather be home with my family.
deleted-user·
If she's trying to conceive she might be a bit jealous. You should tell her it hurt you that she said that
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There's only one word to describe her - SELFISH.
a true friend would be happy and overjoyed that you are bringing another bundle of joy in your life - to their life!
Although I have never really had a party phase, I much, much rather have a family than party my life away. I'm 24 & can't even remember the last time I've had a drink! No other way I would want it. Can't imagine being a 30 year old with no partner or no idea of kids in sight. That was probably my biggest fear. Sure, raising a family is hard work but the most rewarding for sure!
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Sounds like your friend needs to grow up