Constant regret :(
Someone please tell me I'm not crazy. I stopped bfing my son when he was 2 months old. I wasn't producing enough to keep up with him and he was having issues latching from day 1. So I was pumping all the time and I was getting really discouraged.
i have been exclusively pumping since my lo was about 1.5 months old due to her not gaining enough weight while i was breast feeding. she is 6.5 months old now and still getting all breastmilk in a bottle, but i definitely am sad that i was not able to actually breastfeed her
My lo is 2 months now and I am about to give up. I exclusively pump since he was 4 days old. He wouldnt latch either.
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Thank you! I just feel like he deserves better and I feel awful that I didn't try to do more and more about it. I need to get over these moments of regret because its starting to have an impact on everything else around me. Blah
Yes it is normal. My bf my ds for 15 months but my dd has been more difficult. And had to give her formula twice but she is back to eat bf for right now. At least it was able to get your milk for 2 months which is better than none awesome job.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
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You shouldn't feel guilty at all. You tried. Not all babies can bf and not all women can produce enough to feed baby. I bf my 1st son for 4mos, my 2nd son for 4wks, and I ff my dd from day one. She's now 3mos and she's just as happy and healthy as my boys were. I personally don't put too much emphasis on bf. I know they say its best but babies are just as healthy when they're ff. just focus on enjoying your baby and bonding with him. That's the most important thing :) It doesn't matter how he gets his food....he loves you no matter what and knows you're doing your best :):)
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