My sister spilled the beans
My sister spilled the beans
So I decided to keep this pregnancy a total secret. Since it’s our 5th and my yongest just turned 1. But when my sister told me my sister in law is expecting her first after 10 yrs of trying i told her we are too. Now i keep receiving msgs from my family and people that i know (not even close to me) asking about my pregnancy :/. And one of my friends who hates kids (she even said once- thank god i dont have kids and will never have them) she keeps posting jokes on snapchat about pregnant women- (ill post it late). Now i dont even want to talk to anyone because they find a reason to ask about my pregnancy and if it was an accident and how do i feel about being pregnant this soon again if my birth control failed, if my husband is ok that im pregnant again (he really wanted another)
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I'm sorry your secret got spoiled. But just focus on celebrating your little bean and love it more than the rude words being said towards you. ❤
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I can understand that. I also told my sister it is my 5th. Luckily my sister can keep a secret. I am just sad she did not congratulate me and said "geez haven't you heard of condoms?" Which seemed really ride and hurtful. We wanted this baby and are happy. So who cares if it is baby #5 ! But thank god she hasn't told anyone I would probaly kill her lmao! I really hope you get through this ok. Don't let what they say get to you and what I do is I am off social media during pregnancies because I want to keep this a secret. I am only on baby bump. If you ever need to talk let me known I can relate to others annoying comments. And congrats bon the pregnancy!
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My cousin did the same thing to me with my son. She not only told family but everyone she ran into. People we never talked to were congratulating us. We were hurt that for our first we never got to tell anyone. So if I get pregnant this cycle I'm not telling anyone until I'm 20 weeks... unless they figure it out themselves.