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Mrs.Santorno
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SIL is sooooo judgemental

SIL is sooooo judgemental

It drives me crazy!!!! EVERYTHING is terrible to her it seems like. If we are in a store, every person that passes she will say something about. "She's fat" "why did she wear that" "she's sooo ugly" or if we go to a restaurant she will order something and complain if the waiter is slower that day and start being rude to him and talking bad about him and being rude to him. it's getting to the point to where I wanna never hang out with her again. I can't even watch t.v around her she will comment on each person and how terrible they look or how dumb they must be. I don't know what to do ??

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Sounds like it's someone who is insecure with themselves to have to put someone down to build themselves up. I would straight up tell her how annoying it is. Tell her to mind her own damn business and worry about herself. Or simply stop hanging out with her. Chances are if she's doing it to other people, she's doing it behind our back as well. Just my opinion ??‍♀️

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kaycharwy312

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Yea exactly she is a BRATY teenager. She would never ever say anything to anyone's face though !! Next time she does I'm just gonna call her out like you said, and embarrass her. I would totally stop hanging out with her but we go to church with MIL and her and then out to lunch and hang out at least 2x a week with MIL and she's always there ???

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My sister is negative Nancy ? I'm used to it and just ignore her or tell her something if she gets on my nerves. Do you not say anything to avoid confrontation?

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Is she the perfect human being?

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kaycharwy312

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Yes pp I do keep my mouth shut because I know if I don't then everything will be hell for me with my SO and my MIL

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Advice please ? Long story... I'm getting married in April we decided no kids other than our own two and my niece And…

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