pregnant so soon. Did anyone else become pregnant very soon in a relationship? Me and my SO have only been together 6…

After getting back with my ex! We dated for 7yrs, were engaged for a short period. I called it off we broke up.. 2 yrs later gave it a try and boooom! Was pregnant after a month. It did not last. Too many problems from the past kept coming so by the time dd was 4 mnths along in my belly I was a single mom and alone?

But I was tough?

SO and I got pregnant at 8 months in. I wish we could have waited but God had other plans (my oncologist and gynecologist both said having kids wasn't an option yet here I am). Anyway its been hard but we are managing. I love my best friend but I wish we were more careful.

me and my SO got pregnant just after a quick 3 months??

I would wait...I'm in the same situation it's just it's our first child together and I can't stand him....six months is not long enough to be with someone

So and I were a couple 3-4months when I got pregnant with dd1. I was 16 too lol

12 years later we have our complete family 3daughter's and a son, our own home and still head over heels for eachother

Awww is your bf happy?

Awe! Congrats!

My so and I got married and pregnant after only knowing each other for 4 months. We now have two beautiful babies (7 month and 17 months) and couldn't be any happier :)

Update: just found out that I'm pregnant. Deffinatly freaking out a bit.

I'd known my df for 10 years but only been together for 5 months when I got pregnant with dd. We have been together 3 years this month :)

I knew my SO for 2 years because he lived next door but didn't start dating until Halloween 2015. Got pregnant April 2016.

S/o & I knew each other a few months before making us official. Three months into it we had sex for the first time & got pregnant within the first month of intercourse! Was VERY shocking & unbelievable cause nothing happened & I had a mc my first pregnancy with him. But my current is the best person I've been with so I strongly believe it's meant!

My boyfriend and I were together for only a month and a half roughly when we found out I was pregnant.

We weren't trying but we weren't exactly preventing it either.

I felt like a lot of people would have judged us but no body did.

I guess for me it helped that we have known each other and been pretty close for 15 years. And we both knew what we wanted.

But I would wait if you aren't pregnant already. Just for a bit longer at least.

Because even though this is something we both wanted and both talked about for so long before we were even together. (Starting a family in general) it did put a lot of pressure on both of us and it did really test our relationship.

Me and my s/o have bee together only 4 months. I feel like im ruining his life because i want to keep it and he says he loves me and he wants to be there even though he wanted an abortion. Idk maybe im over reacting but i feel like he is going to leave me soon

Got pregnant 5 months in. Had our first 3 days after out 1yr anniversary(6 weeks premature).

We just had our 9yr anniversary and have 3 kids together.

2 boys and a lil girl.

I wish you the best. It won't be an easy road but babies are blessings either way. Honestly, 6 months is so early into a relationship, so it really depends on luck on whether that person was 1) the right one for you 2) in a place to handle the timing of this. I've had a few relationships that I'm very glad I didn't have a baby with them early on. But yet, with my DH, he was "the one" right off the bat.

My husband and I weren't dating when we got pregnant. But that was after a 3.5 year relationship with each other and 7 months apart. The first time we had sex together during our break up and we ended up pregnant. Got back together a week after we found out we were expecting so it wouldn't be so bad explaining to our parents. ?

Yes. I met my husband right after giving birth to my (now our) first son. We dated for 2 months, knew we were right for eachother, started planning a wedding and 4 months after we met found out we were pregnant. Expecting baby #3 in 5 weeks! It was tough at first wondering what everyone was thinking, but we truly were meant to be and everyone knows that now. Good luck to you. Follow your heart and the rest will fall into place.

Me and my DF were together for 3 years, knew each other for way longer, but his family is very old school Catholic and the fact that we weren't married before I got pregnant was the worst thing we could do in their eyes.

They freaked out at first, and then they got over it, but their reaction never changed the fact that we're having a baby together. Don't let anyone steal your sunshine, it's all about perspective and how you two move forward together. As long as you're both dedicated to being good parents to this baby, everything's going to be alright no matter what anyone says.

I had been with my boyfriend for not even 2 months before I got pregnant, on total accident. After I got pregnant, everything changed. He showed me his true colors which was abuse, manipulation, and drugs. You don't truly know someone after 6 months, and you don't want to be having a baby with someone you hardly know. But if you're already pregnant, I'd say just hope for the best and I pray your situation isn't like mine.

I had been trying to get pregnant with my ex for about 8 months with no luck, right before all this happened. He cheated so we broke up. Then I met my son's father shortly after on the 29th of November 2015, conceived on the 6th of December 2015 and got a positive text on the 20th of December 2015. And here I am 8 months pregnant by a man I barely know. It wasn't planned but I didn't take precautions. Only God and time will tell how it will all play out.

You dont truely get to know a person once you live together. You guys can be together for 3yrs, the moment you move in, its a whole different ball game. Some work out and some dont. Every relationship goes through doubt and hardship... Its getting through it that makes the difference.

Less than a month in

I got pregnant three months into our relationship. I was so scared to tell anybody. But our families were SO supportive. Now almost five years later we are married, own a home, and baby #3 is due in December. ?

I hope your families show nothing but support for you guys.

I dated a guy for about 2 weeks and then about 3 weeks after we broke up I found out I was pregnant. He accused me of cheating simply because he didn't want anymore kids. I started dating my husband when I was 2-3 months pregnant. We got married when I was 7.5 months pregnant and now we're are about to celebrate our 2 year wedding anniversary and I am 7 months pregnant with #2. I haven't spoken to my ex since I was 4 months pregnant with my daughter and that's ok because my husband is a much better father to her than her biological father woulda been.

I got pregnant 4 months into the relationship. We have now been together for 11 months but he treats me way better than my boyfriend of 4+ years ever did. I really wish it didn't happen so fast because I wanted to finish my last two years of college first but things happen. Regardless, I'm so happy with the way my life is going. It's even more motivation for me and it's teaching me to grow up and be an adult.

First date in January (New Years day) and got pregnant in October of that year. We've been together almost 6 years and married for almost 5 now! Our second baby is due to come any day now.

Met June 2014. Pregnant January 2015 we've been together 2 years and going strong.

Met my now husband October 4, were official October 21, found out we were pregnant December 23, got engaged February 16, got married March 14. And we're very happy almost 3 years later!

Me and my husband have known each other since 2010 but started dating November of 2012. Moved in together 2 weeks later, moved 500 miles away from home January of 2013, got pregnant in February of 2013 and got married November of 2015. Then got pregnant again December of 2015 ?.

Needless to say, our relationship has been really fast. And I absolutely love my husband and my babies. If we could go back, would we have done it slower? Probably but I love how our life has turned out. Yes we fight, yes we bicker, but he's my best friend and has my heart. Plus he's super handsome and treats me amazing. It's not always bad to get pregnant early if it's the right person. And we weren't trying, it just happened. But definitely wouldn't TRY for that to happen.

We started trying at 6 months but took me a whole year to get pregnant and we were married by then so yes and no haha. Family will always judge well mine do. I never do anything right so if they say anything rude tell them to mind their own business.

I got pregnant after two months. No one said anything negative, but I know they were thinking it (and looking back, I would've been judgemental too) we got engaged a month later, and again I know everyone had opinions, but only a couple people asked if we were really sure that's what we wanted to do. I ended up miscarrying the baby, but we still went through with the wedding, we got married 6 months after meeting each other. I got pregnant again a couple months later, our son was born 5 days after our first wedding anniversary. We're coming up on our 3 year anniversary and I'm pregnant with our second child. Just remember that it's your life, your decisions, and nothing anyone says should change how you feel about the situation

I got pregnant within 2 months of dating my SO. Our relationship is amazing and he is super supportive. I've never met a better man in my life. I am grateful.

I got pregnant with DS 6 months into relationship with BD. Now I'm with a different man. We have been together 12 months. Just started TTC.

I waited longer this time. Learned my lesson. ?

my so and I got pregnant 4-5 months in. We didn't plan it. but February will be 5 years since we got together.

You should know a lot about him and 6 months is too soon. I'd wait longer.

My sister in law got pregnant on her first date after having sex in the backseat of a car. ? they have been together ever since, about 20 years, but they have definitely had a rocky relationship.

Dh and I were pregnant with dd 6 months into our relationship. Not planned but I wouldn't change a thing

Thanks for the input guys. I was 17 when I had my first baby. I then went through college and Got a good job. I'm now 22. I do want another baby but not so soon.

i got prego in the 1st month of being married , we didnt have sex before marraige

My DH and I hadn't even been together a year before we got pregnant with our first. It was quick, it was a surprise, and it was a surprise to our family. But they took it with grace and they were thrilled to be having the first grandchild in the family. Anyone who isn't excited for a new life doesn't have their heart in the right place. They may be concerned about the quickness of it, but they should still be happy for you. At least that's how I feel.

For the record even though it happened quick we've gotten married and had a second. We love each other and our little family. Quick doesn't always mean bad, you know?

DH and I had been together about 7m when I got pregnant with our first. It was hard. We were still getting to know each other (i.e. communication, what buttons not to push, etc.) AND dealing with the stress of a newborn at the same time. The first 3-4m of DD's life were extremely difficult. We fought often and almost split a few times. Luckily we pushed thru it and have a great relationship now (we've been together 6yrs and married for 3yrs).

I got pregnant within a month of dating my best friend (best friend for 2 yes prior) and married 3 mths later. I already had 3 kids which he is helping to raise (bio dad disappeared) and we have added another two and hoping to add another :) xx

I got pregnant with my first DD after dating her father for 6 weeks.. That was bad..

My second DD we were together for 18 months, and it was bad..

Third DD we were together for 6 months, and it's been great.. Our 3 year anniversary is in September..

4 months into the relationship. Looking at it, I definitely wish it was a longer relationship first but things happen. We're okay though, just learning to live with everything we didn't know about eachother. We have always been close though, since the night we met. We're pretty inseparable but there are things i wish I knew first and same as him.

If you're not pregnant, you should really wait and get to know him better first. If you are pregnant, good luck and I hope he measures up to expectations and what not.

Lol I got pregnant one month after dating my DF.

We're still happily together 3 years later though. :)

Me and my husband met started dating 2 weeks later, Moved in 2 days after that, got pregnant and married after 6 months together and now we have been together for a total of 1 year!! We have never had a fight, we communicate like we can read each other's minds and are blissfully happy despite the rapid speed of our relationship. If you're happy and he's happy then just enjoy the love and your babies because it's a rare and beautiful thing to find someone you just fit so well with :)

I fell pregnant to my dear boyfriend after 4 months (we used contraception but our beautiful little gift just wanted to be here too much) and he has treated me better and stood by my side more than a guy I was with for 2 years! It doesn't matter how long you two have been together (in my eyes) if you love eachother you will be perfectly fine❣ wishing you both all the happiness in the world!

I was on birth control but for medical reasons had to come off of it. We had unprotected sex a few times this month. We were supposed to avoid ovulation day but that didn't exactly happen. He thinks I can't get pregnant that fast after coming off birth control, I know he's wrong. Looks like I just have to wait until af.

I got pregnant 6 months in. We've been together 13 years now

My SO and I had only been together for 4 months when I got pregnant. It was a surprise but we're both happy.

I got pregnant after four months.

Both of our families were beyond happy.

Not saying it's a great idea to instantly get pregnant, however, my husband and I started trying after only 4 months. I didn't get pregnant for another year+ due to complications but we are now having our third child and everything is great. Best man I've ever known.

By God wait. I got pregnant after 3 months. Learned A LOT about him and was put through hell a few times after I found out I was pregnant. By every inch of heart I love my babies, but I should have waited.

With my sons father i got pregnant 3 months into dating and my current SO im pregnant right now got pregnant 2 months into dating judge away it happened ?. If you're not pregnant id wait

If you're not already pregnant I would say wait. There's a lot you should get to know about someone and I don't think 6 months is enough. If you guys truly love each other and plan to stay together give yourselves some time to really know each other.

I'd wait.

Are you pregnant already or just asking because you're planning on becoming pregnant?