Does anyone NOT want anymore kids?
I'm a first time mama, and I honestly don't know if I want more. Is that normal? Lol I'm hoping this feeling goes away eventually because I've always wanted two and so has hubs.
I was like you after I have my first. Everything was so overwhelming! Well I'm happy I've got a boy and a girl now, I'm definitely done! I think it's totally normal especially during the first year to think your first child will be your last. And it's totally OK for your first child to be your last!
I had an amazing pregnancy, horrible birth & recovery, so i dont want anymore lol. This is my first and i know i want more, my first option is adoption unless i do get pregnant again. Since i dont want to birth anymore, i want to be able to help young ones get adopted so i can spoil them because i love babies lol
I have 3 currently and i go back and forth on a daily basis whether to add a 4th. On the good days im like sure...another would be great then on the days my 2 toddler boys are acting out and my 9 month old wont sleep at night im like ummm no more!! I cant so it. Its a mental battle everyday.
I'm definitely not going to make any permanent decisions. I'm thinking I'll change my mind, I think it's just hard to imagine going through that rough newborn stage again lol.
I'm a pregnant unicorn when expecting ? pregnancy is over all kind to me and I have quick and relatively painless labors. I LOVE being pregnant!! however, #3 is our last planned, if I'm not currently pregnant (or after birth) we are getting "permanent" birth control (Copper IUD). I'm not sure how I'll feel being done... I've always seen me with lots of kids (3+)
I always wondered what it would be like to be 'done' and wondered if I could ever make a permanent decision to take the option off the table forever. Number 3 was our magic number. My husband got a vasectomy and we are both 100% happy with the decision. Some people it's none... or 1. Or maybe 20. But the first year is tough so I wouldn't make any hasty decisions just yet unless you are absolutely sure!
Lyssabelle is our 1st and will be our only( unless God has other plans). Hubby always just wanted one. We had a really hard pregnancy and Lyssabelle is extremely hyper and not an "easy" baby. I always wanted two, but when we started trying to conceive we had issues and I ended up going through testing and being told I had half the eggs of a typical 50 year old and I would need donor eggs to conceive. So Lyssi is our little miracle, conceived naturally. I have no desire for another. Cory wants to try again. Not. Happening.
After my first I was like nope no more. When he was like 4 he started asking for a sibling and I was still a one and done. When he was 6 my hubby started in wanting another. I stayed set on one and done then changed my mind last year. Now I have a 9 year old and a 9 month old. ?
Me I have baby fever from time to time but I honestly don't know if I want another. Liam is a good baby but there are times when I still feel like I can't imagine going through this baby stage again. Especially because there's no telling how my next baby could be it scares me
Hahah yes thank you, that's kind of what I've dealt with. Davis has been a difficult babe so I just don't know if my patience can handle another one anytime soon. I kind of wanna wait until he's in kindergarten because we really cant afford two kids in daycare, but Tanner wants them fairly close in age ?.
Always wanted one and after having one, I know I'm done.