I opted to do the shower myself with the help of my sisters, my mom and a few best friends however, when its just him and I here I ask for help just to look online. I'm not asking that we go anywhere or anything. I feel bad when I get mad @ him because he's wonderful with everything else, very supportive as far as house, work and $ stuff since we live together we split everything in the house financially buts its like I'm freaking bothering him when I ask for like little massages an things like that. It's just gets my blood pumping, I'm pregnant with OUR kid, if you can't bear a child at least help me as I am doing it. Since I entered my 3rd trimester he just get under my skin. When he came to bed lastnight, I didn't even want to lay next to him I just went on the couch. This sucks because I don't want us to be torn apart but I'm not going to just sit back and have him do as he pleases!

Im plannin my babyshower on my own because his family dnt want 2 cum 2 the east side which i dnt understand y when im payn 4 the hall n its the cheapest one I found but now his mom is thrown one 4 his side of the family

I try to be patient with him because I know some of it may be pregnancy but its hard because he just doesn't get it. Tonight for example we were suppose to be looking @ decorations for the baby shower, what does he do? Pulls out a Nintendo Ds and play. After he saw me getting upset he's like let's look, I just closed the computer and laid in the bed. It's a little selfish if you ask but w/e. I have decided that if I have to do this on my own then, that's exactly what I will do!

I know exactly how you feel. My husband has been getting on my last nerve and making me so stressed its causing pains in my stomach.