does your SO play with your

Nipple stimulation was the only way to get me going. But i just cant do it, seems gross to me and there will probably be milk everywhere and it will be a huge turn off.

Mine did.. Both times.

Mine doesn't :( every now and then he'll grab them for a millisecond and then remember there is milk in there so yeah it sucks.

He tried it and I was like ??lol my boobs can be used for one thing at a time, for now they are food.

While I'm nursing I don't allow him to touch them. I don't want germs where my babies eat?.

Once I'm done weaning, they're all his lol

During sexy time, I love it when he plays with them. Instant turn on. Any other time, don't touch them. I'll just have a letdown and will drip everywhere. lol I don't have letdowns during our time for some reason. ?

Right now during sex I'm having him pull and suck them hard to get them ready for July. And omg it fckn hurts he's like that's not me fully sucking and I'm just like "Jesus guide me..." I'm so scared

At first no, they were just too sore and tender, but once the pain went away, I have no issue with it. Breasts are for nourishment, but I don't feel like it's necessary to ignore the sexual side of them. It's two completely different sensations.

I wish he would. Not simultaneously of course but there is a difference between the contact.

So no I don't think they are off limits to him. I honestly don't see my body as purely maternal or purely sexual and it doesn't belong to anyone but me.

Yes ? It took me a few months before I allowed it, the first few months of breastfeeding I wasn't able to mentally distinguish the difference between nursing and sexual pleasure and it MAJORLY grossed me out anytime DH attempted to touch my boobs.

Not while I breast feed...it's very uncomfortable. But usually I love it.

My daughter is breastfed (no bottles) and is 11 months old - no boob play at all since birth. I don't like it. Feels weird. Those are our daughters! Haha.

Maybe after I wean.

He can touch them still- just not if she's actively latched and nursing. That would be weird for me.

When it's just me and him, I want him to touch them. My breasts are a big part of our sex life (more for me than him).

I kind of feel alone... I WISH he would touch them! Not while baby is gfeding of course, but to me the sensation of feeding my child and the sensation of hubby touching them is completely different. He hasnt touched them in months :( it's a very sensitive area for me and really gets me going when I'm in "the mood".

I don't mind. It's nice to have soft loving gentle touches after they've been abused for the past 17months.

Yep. As long as baby isn't actually feeding its fair game. In fact I find it hard to get off wo it

No not while I bf. They didn't feel sexual then. Plus all the time the baby spent on them, I didn't want them touched after.

Not while baby is actually nursing, but any other time is fine. He loves them, and I won't deprive him of something he loves. The thought never even crossed my mind.

My oh didn't, he didn't want to get a surprise mouth full of milk so they were off limits

I love boob play but he knows not during feeding time

I will start leaking if my husband even touched them by mistake when I had my first. It was such a turn off for like 7-9 months for me and they were off limits.

Well I feel like the odd one out. As long as I'm not nursing at that particular moment, I've got no issues with boob play!

Thank god I'm not the only one ... Gosh it makes my skin crawl when my SO tries to lick on them or even touch them

Ahaha @Randi you made me literally lol.

I guess my boobs will be off limits until I'm done breastfeeding.

Blaw described exactly how i feel ?

When my milk started coming in and my boobs were enormous, he'd sometimes ask for a "peak"

I would get so grossed out and want to kick him in the balls for being attracted to me while I'm nursing my child ?

Absolutely not!! It's extremely weird and there's no faster way to turn me off.

I completely lost all sexualization(?) of my breasts for the year and a half that I breastfed my daughter. Its been a couple months and I still feel weird about OH playing with them.

During the first few months, no. Way to much going on there. But usually right around a year he starts getting frisky with them again.