does your SO play with your
Boobs if you breastfeed?? I breastfeed and my husband made a comment that he wanted to grab my boobs and lick my nipples (tmi) and I felt grossed out and told him my boobs are food and I won't let him near them. Lol. Just wondering if boob grabbing/licking is off limits if you breastfeed.
Are your boobs supposed to hurt the whole time you breastfeed or does it eventually stop the longer you do it? This is my third day and I can't stand how my boobs feel 😫
Does breastfeeding keep your boobs big haha not to breastfeed keep your boobs big
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Letty·
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Nipple stimulation was the only way to get me going. But i just cant do it, seems gross to me and there will probably be milk everywhere and it will be a huge turn off.
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Mine did.. Both times.
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Mine doesn't :( every now and then he'll grab them for a millisecond and then remember there is milk in there so yeah it sucks.
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He tried it and I was like ??lol my boobs can be used for one thing at a time, for now they are food.
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While I'm nursing I don't allow him to touch them. I don't want germs where my babies eat?.
Once I'm done weaning, they're all his lol
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During sexy time, I love it when he plays with them. Instant turn on. Any other time, don't touch them. I'll just have a letdown and will drip everywhere. lol I don't have letdowns during our time for some reason. ?
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Right now during sex I'm having him pull and suck them hard to get them ready for July. And omg it fckn hurts he's like that's not me fully sucking and I'm just like "Jesus guide me..." I'm so scared
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At first no, they were just too sore and tender, but once the pain went away, I have no issue with it. Breasts are for nourishment, but I don't feel like it's necessary to ignore the sexual side of them. It's two completely different sensations.
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I wish he would. Not simultaneously of course but there is a difference between the contact.
So no I don't think they are off limits to him. I honestly don't see my body as purely maternal or purely sexual and it doesn't belong to anyone but me.
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Yes ? It took me a few months before I allowed it, the first few months of breastfeeding I wasn't able to mentally distinguish the difference between nursing and sexual pleasure and it MAJORLY grossed me out anytime DH attempted to touch my boobs.
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Not while I breast feed...it's very uncomfortable. But usually I love it.
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My daughter is breastfed (no bottles) and is 11 months old - no boob play at all since birth. I don't like it. Feels weird. Those are our daughters! Haha.
Maybe after I wean.
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He can touch them still- just not if she's actively latched and nursing. That would be weird for me.
When it's just me and him, I want him to touch them. My breasts are a big part of our sex life (more for me than him).
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I kind of feel alone... I WISH he would touch them! Not while baby is gfeding of course, but to me the sensation of feeding my child and the sensation of hubby touching them is completely different. He hasnt touched them in months :( it's a very sensitive area for me and really gets me going when I'm in "the mood".
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I don't mind. It's nice to have soft loving gentle touches after they've been abused for the past 17months.
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Yep. As long as baby isn't actually feeding its fair game. In fact I find it hard to get off wo it
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No not while I bf. They didn't feel sexual then. Plus all the time the baby spent on them, I didn't want them touched after.
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Not while baby is actually nursing, but any other time is fine. He loves them, and I won't deprive him of something he loves. The thought never even crossed my mind.
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My oh didn't, he didn't want to get a surprise mouth full of milk so they were off limits
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I love boob play but he knows not during feeding time
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I will start leaking if my husband even touched them by mistake when I had my first. It was such a turn off for like 7-9 months for me and they were off limits.
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Well I feel like the odd one out. As long as I'm not nursing at that particular moment, I've got no issues with boob play!
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Thank god I'm not the only one ... Gosh it makes my skin crawl when my SO tries to lick on them or even touch them
Letty·
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Ahaha @Randi you made me literally lol.
I guess my boobs will be off limits until I'm done breastfeeding.
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Blaw described exactly how i feel ?
When my milk started coming in and my boobs were enormous, he'd sometimes ask for a "peak"
I would get so grossed out and want to kick him in the balls for being attracted to me while I'm nursing my child ?
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Absolutely not!! It's extremely weird and there's no faster way to turn me off.
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I completely lost all sexualization(?) of my breasts for the year and a half that I breastfed my daughter. Its been a couple months and I still feel weird about OH playing with them.
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During the first few months, no. Way to much going on there. But usually right around a year he starts getting frisky with them again.