Surprise gender

Anyone else not finding out the gender?? I have a 4 yo boy and a 2 yo girl so I've always said I would have my next a surprise but now I'm already wanting to know! I need someone to talk me out of finding out for my whole pregnancy?

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We're waiting, we just picked out two names. It's our first child, but it seems more exciting not knowing & waiting to actually meet the baby.

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I’m undecided what I want to to do... either gender reveal since it’ll be our last or my husband & I will find out together and then tell our two boys. I’m hoping for a girl but if it isn’t, then that’s ok too.

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Here in India it is illegal asking abot gender :-(

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We are waiting till birth to find out as well. We didn't find out with my 2nd and that moment we found out was hands down one of the best moments of my life. We already have one of each anyway so this will be our tiebreaker :)

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Molly Robinson·Мама двоих (10 лет, 12 лет)

Well it looks like I have quite a few ladies that can help me through not finding out!!!! Let's do this?

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I go back and forth! Would love the surprise (we have 4 yo boy and 2 yo girl too!) but hubs absolutely does not want the surprise! He keeps talking excitedly about our gender dinner - we always get the tech to put gender in an envelope, and then go out to a nice steakhouse that night to open it together. We don't even discuss names until we know what we are having, ha! I think its a boy this time - curious to see if I'm right!

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I didn’t find out with my first, twins. Then i found out with my second, single pregnancy. I like the anticipation of not knowing much better so we are not finding out again this time.

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Surprise here too!! We have a 3 year old girl and a 1 year old boy. We found out with them but this time I'm excited not to know!!

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I'm keeping it a surprise too ? 7 wks tomorrow and I've my first scan on Monday!!

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I have a 2 year old girl and a 1 year old boy. I found out with both of them. This time we aren't finding out. I told my hubby he has to go to all ultrasounds to make sure I don't look. I'm the one on the fence not him, he's all for the surprise!

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I didn't find out with my son.. It made it easier not finding out because it drove everyone around me crazy, so that's what kept me on track of not asking at every appointment.. When he was born, I remember saying what is it, what is it?!" Lol

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Surprise over here too! I was the opposite with my first. I really wanted to know and always Sed I'm too impatient I have to know and when it came time for the anatomy scan which was 23w I thought, you know I could actually do this and wait I'm already over half way and I've not been impatient to find out (but we had decided already and hubby was keen to find our) so we found out and I thought next time i could wait. 5 years on and I still want a surprise. ?

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I have one of each also and said I wanted this time to be a surprise but I know myself and that's just not going to happen lol so we are going to find out but not tell anyone else

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Molly Robinson·Мама двоих (10 лет, 12 лет)

I guess it'll save me money?

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Stay strong and don’t find out!!! The surprise at the end is one of the only “true surprises” left in life. When I think back to giving birth, it helped me get through labour. It was like I knew that there was a huge surprise and gift at the end and that’s what I focused on. It’s definitely the best feeling in the world when Tyler was finally born after a long 21 hours, and it was my husband who told me what we had had. The midwife said to my husband “well, would you like to tell Jess what we have?” And my husband then said “it’s a boy!”. That moment is the best memory I have of being pregnant and still makes me tear up now lol. Trust me... the wait is worth it!!

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I didn’t find out with my first and our delivering doctor asked for our boy and girl names. That moment when my son was introduced as ‘it’s Emmett!’ instead of ‘its a boy’ is one of my favourite moments of my life. I wouldn’t trade that for knowing a few months earlier.

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Oh no I can’t wait. I have admiration for you ladies that do though!!! No patience over here!!! I’m sure the surprise in delivery day would be amazing!

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I’m not finding out either. We have 2 boys and my 2 yr old keeps saying “brother baby” but I haven’t even told him I’m pregnant or what’s about to happen. I want to wait but my husband wants to find out. He’s not invited to any ultrasounds ?

Stay strong!! The surprise will be worth it!

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I am identical to you. 4yo boy, 2yo girl. We didn't know for my boy, did for my girl, and now I want to do another surprise. My husband isn't as keen on the idea, but I'll win.

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I think I would go crazy not finding out until baby arrives.. I MUST KNOW lol.

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Molly Robinson·Мама двоих (10 лет, 12 лет)

My husband wants to find out too but I told him I just wouldn't invite him to the ultrasound????

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I'm so adamant about NOT finding out! I want this surprise...This will most likely my last child so I don't want to ruin this great surprise that life can give you! It's going to take so much will power with everyone asking and what not!

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We are keeping it a surprise, too. We already have a girl.. I honestly think this one is another girl. Guess we will see in June ?

It’s going to be hard once everyone starts posting their genders and showing off cute stuff they buy. I just keep telling myself that it’s worth the wait!

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my husband and i are finding out but keeping it a surprise for everone else!

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