Surprise gender
Anyone else not finding out the gender?? I have a 4 yo boy and a 2 yo girl so I've always said I would have my next a surprise but now I'm already wanting to know! I need someone to talk me out of finding out for my whole pregnancy?
Well it looks like I have quite a few ladies that can help me through not finding out!!!! Let's do this?
I go back and forth! Would love the surprise (we have 4 yo boy and 2 yo girl too!) but hubs absolutely does not want the surprise! He keeps talking excitedly about our gender dinner - we always get the tech to put gender in an envelope, and then go out to a nice steakhouse that night to open it together. We don't even discuss names until we know what we are having, ha! I think its a boy this time - curious to see if I'm right!
Surprise over here too! I was the opposite with my first. I really wanted to know and always Sed I'm too impatient I have to know and when it came time for the anatomy scan which was 23w I thought, you know I could actually do this and wait I'm already over half way and I've not been impatient to find out (but we had decided already and hubby was keen to find our) so we found out and I thought next time i could wait. 5 years on and I still want a surprise. ?
Stay strong and don’t find out!!! The surprise at the end is one of the only “true surprises” left in life. When I think back to giving birth, it helped me get through labour. It was like I knew that there was a huge surprise and gift at the end and that’s what I focused on. It’s definitely the best feeling in the world when Tyler was finally born after a long 21 hours, and it was my husband who told me what we had had. The midwife said to my husband “well, would you like to tell Jess what we have?” And my husband then said “it’s a boy!”. That moment is the best memory I have of being pregnant and still makes me tear up now lol. Trust me... the wait is worth it!!
I’m not finding out either. We have 2 boys and my 2 yr old keeps saying “brother baby” but I haven’t even told him I’m pregnant or what’s about to happen. I want to wait but my husband wants to find out. He’s not invited to any ultrasounds ?
Stay strong!! The surprise will be worth it!
My husband wants to find out too but I told him I just wouldn't invite him to the ultrasound????
We are keeping it a surprise, too. We already have a girl.. I honestly think this one is another girl. Guess we will see in June ?
It’s going to be hard once everyone starts posting their genders and showing off cute stuff they buy. I just keep telling myself that it’s worth the wait!
We're waiting, we just picked out two names. It's our first child, but it seems more exciting not knowing & waiting to actually meet the baby.