Daddy thinks I have it easy
Daddy thinks I have it easy
So my boyfriend has recently had to watch the baby 3 nights a week since I've gone back to work. 7p-7a. He says that my breastfeeding has made it so hard for him. Now the baby takes a bottle fine. Yes sometimes I let him comfort nurse but not all the time. Boyfriend seems to forget the nights that I stayed up all night feeding baby or when he wouldn't latch. Baby is still sleeping 3 hrs at a time for him which is what he normally does. He's almost 10 wks old. I don't know what my boyfriend expected. I worry all night when I'm at work and it's awful.
deleted-user·
Im sorry girl. Im so worried for when i go back. My husband calls lo tittie baby cause he is obsessed and us always wanting the boob.
Erin·
Yeah they do love the boob! I just wonder if I did something wrong? I hate for him to be so upset when I'm not there.
deleted-user·
I go back to work on the 5th and I'm so worried. I'll be working 6-6:30. ? it's only 3 days, so I'm trying to stay positive.
deleted-user·
I go back to work on the 1st and my LO was taking the bottle but this weekend when I really need her to, she's just kicking up a storm... Really don't know what to do... Have one more day... The nanny officially started today and with her screaming like this also scared she might want to leave ? .... My hubby is also starting to say I've breastfed her too long ??
Erin·
Ugh men suck. So I get home this morning. Baby is in my spot in bed. So I have to wake him and then feed him of course. Then boyfriend is snoring next to me. So I just sleep in bed with baby cause he won't get up. Then baby wakes at 11. Boyfriend gets up and leaves me with baby again to feed and change. Then he takes baby and goes downstairs finally but then comes back in the room at 2 to change him and I'm such a light sleeper and he knows that ?. So now I've had like 4 hours of broken sleep and I can't go back to sleep. Night shift and men suck. I have to work another 12 hours tonight and tomorrow night. I feel like death already.
deleted-user·
Capri 16 I'm sorry your husband said that. It's crazy. No way baby was breastfed too long this young. Babies are attached to the boob because that's the way nature made them. Our society is just so jacked up that we don't allow babies time to fully develop before snatching them from their mothers. Yeah, that's the consequence of poor maternity leave laws.