to test or not to test...

so i wanted to wait to test with dh if/when af is late. i remember how special it was the first time i saw those two lines, and i wanted to share that with him. af is due monday or tues. i've been feeling exactly like i did after bfp with ds. crampy, bloated, twinges, heavy... i've also had spotting (brown only sometimes when i wipe) for a couple days. and supposedly you often feel it early with #2. i think he'll think i'm crazy to test before. i keep going in circles. test without him, then tell him if yes. test without him, pretend i didn't then tell him, and retest. tell him and test on sunday monday, or lie that i am a day late and test sunday monday?? help me choose, i'm drving myself bananas!!

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scorpiomoods

fyi I told him, but should have just done it on my own. guys just don't have the same anxiety over this as us. he was happy and excited, but not like I am. its so true how a mom becomes a mom when pg, and a dad becomes a dad when the baby comes! (bfn, but its early still :-)

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I wouldn't b able 2 wait just test x

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I would just test and come up with an interesting way to tell him

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I would test first lol then act surprised :)

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I think you should just go ahead and test without him. Even though he isn't right there with you to see the lines pop up he will still feel that it is special bc the baby is something that you & him created together. Might be a nice Lil surprise for him. Good luck!

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scorpiomoods

bump

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