Weight issue So before pregnancy I was 120lbs and always have been smaller (I'm 5'5"). Now that I am starting my 22week,…

I thought all women wanted a big butt? Wish mine would get bigger! Pass it this way if you don't like. ?

But I would just saying something smart back. She might just be mad cause you got a nice booty and hers is hitting the saggy stage. ?

Um hello??? You're growing a F*cking PERSON inside you!!! I really hate fat shaming- in any form.

Your mom needs a reality check. How much did she gain when prego? Seriously. Now I'm annoyed ?

Lol, I like that comment! Thanks for the smile :) I think I'm going to use that next time she makes a comment about it!

The only problem is that the more I hear the comments from her, the more I feel self conscious. I really am starting to hate my pregnant body. Now I see all the flaws that she keeps pointing out.

Awk I'm 5'6 at 200 lbs now. And my ideal weight is 160. I wasn't made to be a skinny person.

My doctors are really big on maintaining a healthy weight and I had to tell them up front that I am a big pregnant lady. I am generally a fairly thin girl and not very tall. I make big old babies. My biggest being 8.8. It has to go somewhere!!

I don't care what people say about me because I know I don't go crazy in the eating department and all I care about is having a healthy and happy baby. :)

You have to stick up for yourself! Don't let anyone put you down like that ...i cant believe your husband said to just put up w that

It took one time of commenting back on fil's appearance to stop all my in-laws comments. I heard him cal sil (his own daughter) some of the most insulting names you could imagine calling any pregnant woman (loudly and in public)& knew he would try it with me too. She asked nicely that he stop but it just got progressively worse until long after she got back to prepregnancy weight.

All that happened with me was he said "my God! Getting out there aren't you?" & I quickly responded "yep. Maybe by the time I hit 40 weeks I'll almost be as big as you." He put his head down & walked away. (He is not a big man but doesn't like people pointing out his flaws)

Thanks ladies. I appreciate the positive words. I'll see if my SO can talk to her first.

I know how you feel. I ended up gaining 70lb by the end of my pregnancy.

Everybody made comments about how round my whole body was getting. ?

I wonder what she would say about me at a whopping 220 pounds lol for the record I was 260 when I has my daughter a month ago:). You'll loose the weight tell her to shut up.

What a batch. I am same height as you and was 120 when I got pregnant. I gained 60 lbs. mostly due to pre e. I had an extremes amount of water weight but regardless weight is weight. My DD is 10 months old and I am down to 115. You will lose every bit of that if not more. Please don't let those jealous people make you feel bad. My husband told me that he thinks my legs and butt looked healthier when I was pregnant and that I should put some meat on! Lol my point is that some people just suck!

Don't let it get to you. Ignore her. Hubby should tell her to stop when she does it. You can joke back with her in case she has ill intentions to piss her off. Hahaha ?

My mil calls my baby "shim" since we don't know the gender yet. I just smh and smirk. She even tells me it's too early for me to feel my baby. ? I'm 15wk3. I didn't know she was in my belly to know what I feel.

You just need to tell her to, STFU. Using those exact words.

It's ridiculous. You don't tell that to anybody, no matter if they're family or not.

And your hubby needs to stick up for you, instead of appeasing your MIL.

You've gained a normal amount of weight for 20 weeks, and I'm sure you look great!

I would make some kind of snarky remark like "oh yes, please call me fat. All women like being called fat." Or "thanks my chunky mummy."