Men can also have a form of PND.
It's hard when they're little for men to bond and in time that love can grow. However it may be worth him having a word with your gp. As your DS grows he will love him just like the others it can just take a while to bond. I was desperate for dd1 to be a girl and when she was born it took me a long time to adjust to it after two boys and thinking I would never be lucky enough for her. maybe it's similar for men. Xx
I bet it is Hun it's must be the worst feeling ever. Ur such a good mum he's so lucky to have u Hun x