PPD is such a female dog!!
Being angry, hot (because of the heat wave), trying to get through PPD w/o meds, and a teething baby who just so happened to get his 4 month shots today is seriously like hell! It's barely dinner time ugh Pray for me please. ?
I'm sorry you're having to go through that. Maybe you can go to counseling together. Before we got married we went to counseling with my pastor, just so we could be sure we were both ready for marriage and it definitely brought us closer together. Just sit down with him and tell him that you both need to work this out together for the sake of your child. Tell him you'll be there to support him and he has to be there for you as well in order for it to work. I know sometimes it's easier to just give up but working things out is so much more rewarding and in the end hopefully it can only bring you two closer.
My husband decided to get drunk and act a fool about our problems and blame them completely on me, even though he's the one whose depressed about losing a job promotion that was his fault two months ago. I feel bad for him but we're losing out on watching our kid grow because we're both depressed. ? Idk how to help my husband realize what is truly happening. I've asked him to get help like I do and he said he would but then when it comes down to it, he had excuses. How do I help my depressed husband? I don't wanna leave and tear our family apart but Idk how much longer I can do this.
Thank you :)
We've done marriage counseling two different sets of times and it worked. That's why I asked him to at least go back with me so we can communicate how to move on but I just don't know anymore. I'm exhausted and now my LO seems to be having a reaction to the shots he got yesterday so now that's all that's on my mind. ?