Sleeping through the night
How did you do it? Am I doing it wrong? My kid eats every 3-4 hours, including at night. I've been reading up on how I can get him to sleep more at night but all I really found was extending the length between feedings. I just don't see how I can do that at night if he's showing so many signs of hunger by the 3-4 hour mark. I also read feeding baby more during the day so they'll sleep more at night.
It is completely normal at this age to be waking during the night so don't stress too much.
Sleeping through the night is considered to be about 5 hours so 3-4 hours is good.
Just remember babies are constantly growing and changing and will go through growth growth spurts and wonder weeks where sleep may not be consistent.
My now 3 yo didn't sleep a lot until she got older. And she didn't sleep completely through until she was 1 when we took the bottle away. My 7 weeks old only gets up twice to eat and usually goes immediately back to sleep. We aren't doing anything different than we did with her other than I'm EBF this time. So, personally I think it just depends on the baby and you shouldn't force it. Side note, my grandma has told me that my uncle only slept 4 hours a night, was walking and talking by 4-6 months, and even doing math not long after that. So basically, it could always be worse :).
I feed my son at 8pm change him swaddle him and put him in his bed I put on soft music and he falls right asleep the music I play at bedtime and during naps so it helps them fall asleep I have been doing that since he was 5wks old a week later he slept 6hrs and a week after that it was 8 and then 10 hrs and now he is going to be 10wks and slept 830pm to 830am last night. My first didnt sleep 12hrs until was close to 4-5months but every baby is different a routine is key and very helpful☺
For us it has been consistency with routine. Around 9:30 we give Margo a bottle, then bath with lavender baby wash, then lavender baby lotion, clean PJs, then rock & sing to her til she falls asleep, then lay her down with white noise. She's been sleeping until 4-4:30. Pretty good run for a 6 week old
Some babies just take longer to get to that point and nothing you will do helps. I've had good sleepers and bad sleepers. Doesn't hurt to try or get a routine going but I don't feel it is something you can make them do. When they are ready, they will sleep, their tummy is still telling them they are hungry so they need to eat. We are still up once, sometimes twice. He doesn't want to play and goes right back to sleep so I figure he must need it still.
Not sure if you are using a pacifier or not but I've been able to get an extra hour between bedtime and first feeding by giving it to him. Did that for a couple of nights and now he sleeps that extra hour without it.
Depending on your beliefs you can let baby fuss for awhile and see if they go back to sleep. I don't do that before six months and even then I still have a hard time going through with it.
Not getting enough sleep sucks but try to enjoy those middle of the night snuggles while they last.
I change her diaper and put her in a clean onsie and wrap her in her swaddler and feed her my husband rocks her while I pump if she isn't asleep when I'm done I rock her to sleep then I lay her down in her bed. She sleeps till 430 ish has a bottle of breast milk and goes back to sleep till 630 I giver her her nuk and she goes back to sleep till 7-8 . not all night but not bad.
My baby's pediatrician told me that 15 lbs is the magic number for sleeping through the night. So according to her it has more to do with the baby's size.
My first was tiny and he didn't sleep through the night until he was 7 months old. This one is growing like crazy and started sleeping through the night at 2 months. (He's 15 lbs exactly) Although I've noticed that if he doesn't eat as frequently during the day he doesn't sleep as well at night. So I would say try to increase feedings during the day or at least in the evening.
reading online it says a 4 month old should be sleeping around 11 hrs a night. mine barley sleeps 7.... and wakes up frequently for feeds... why???!!! how come my baby doesn't need sleep?! he'll nap around 4 hrs during the day If I'm lucky. but I read they need between 4-6 hrs of nap during the day. so he needs 4 more hours at night!!!
What can I do to sleep comfortably at night?

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So my baby is 8 weeks old and is thriving with weight gain each doctors visit. So here is my question: around 4-5 hours at night for sleep she wakes up every night and sucks on her thumb. (She finally this week likes it to soothe her during nap times) her eyes are still closed and she moves around and sucks it. I wake her to feed her. My question is should I just let it go? And see if she is just soothing herself to sleep? I don't want her to stave by morning if she sleep a couple of more hours...
I feed my daughter every 3-4 hours throughout the day and her nighttime bottle and morning bottle I give her more milk . They the day she drinks 4 oz and at night it's 5 oz and she sleeps from 11-6 am.