Wanted to share with my baby bump ladies !!! This was my ultrasound pictures at 7 weeks 4 days !! I'm 8 weeks 1 day today !! Have to turn pictures upside down to see baby.. I'm in love with my little one !!!! Due date january 26th, 2019.
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
So, a few days ago I did genetic testing to see if my baby would have any disabilities. The numbers came back higher for Down syndrome and I now have to speak to a counselor about my options as far as continuing this pregnancy. The midwife said it isn't a final diagnosis, and it still makes me wonder. I'm not sure exactly how to take this, I'm thinking of getting a second opinion. Has this happen to anyone you know, or has anyone experienced this before and received a good outcome? I don't want to terminate my pregnancy and then chances are I could have had a healthy baby. All my sonograms are amazingly fine, the baby is always described as perfect as no one in mine/ or my child's father family has ever been diagnosed with Down Syndrome and it's supposed to be passed through genetic. I need advice 😕
Hi I am into my 15 week now But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though What should i do i am very confused Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Chloelee101·
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I paid for a private scan at 14 weeks and found out I'm having a little girl❤ they couldint tell me anything else other then gender and her heart was beating a strong 158 BPM. My anatomy scan is on Monday may 1st so not too far away!
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Yes ma'am i do the same !!! God will mot bless you with a precious baby just to take it away from you !!! Can't wait to see what your having !? ill definitely let you know how my test goes Monday!!!
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I just always remind myself that something bad COULD happen to anyone in my family. My mom could get cancer, my brother could be in a bad car wreck and I don't sit here worrying about it every second. Odds are I will have a happy healthy baby and I keep reminding myself of that every day:) it helps ease my anxiety a little bit❤
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Yep have the same feelings all the time
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Yes , after the scan you will probably be okay . I have mine monday and ive been having crazy thought that when i go do a sonogram my baby won't have a heartbeat or something i think about that daily..
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I'm hoping I feel better after the anatomy scan but I'm glad I'm not the only one❤
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I am due any day now and those thoughts still cross my mind (probably daily.)
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I just want my baby to live I don't care about Down syndrome or anything like that. I just don't want any condition or abnormality that would not all her to live?
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I am the same way , due to my infertility for almost 7 years i got blessed with my little baby boy , im 18 weeks 3 days today , and Monday i have that exam ; and im more scarec than excited! I was told my baby boy is healthy heart beat at 157 doesnt really change much . I think maybe because i still can't feel him move ?
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I m the same. I freak out all the time! For everything. Will it grow? Will it live? Then I stress that I will stress the baby out... i feel like a teenager stressing out for exams.. but worse! I do find that yoga or spending time with friends helps :)
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I was the exact same way with my first. I went into the anatomy scan terrified instead of excited even though there was no reason to worry. Once I found out he was a boy and the scan was really going well, I relaxed and got so excited and was so happy to know we were having a son. :)
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I felt this way. Before I had the scan at 20w I was seriously worried that we would go in and my baby would look like a blob. But don't worry, you only have a few more weeks until you'll get to see your baby and all your worries will go away ?
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I still worry about this at 24 weeks.
And like you said, the worry has made it somewhat difficult to feel attached but I have to put that anxiety to the back of my mind for the babies sake.
Try not to stress about it. I know it's easier said than done.
What helps me is my heartbeat monitor I bought on Amazon. When I worry, I use it and listen to his little heartbeat and it calms my nerves somewhat.