chloelee101
Chloelee101·Мама дочки (7 лет)
Anxiety
Tomorrow I will be 17 weeks and I really want to get emotionally attached to my unborn baby but every time I feel like I am I shut myself down because I'm worried and anxious about my anatomy scan. I know I probably have no reason to worry but I worry that they will find something abnormal and that the baby won't live after birth. I'm not even worried about Down syndrome or anything I would be blessed to have a baby with Down syndrome I just don't want to have a still born. Anyone else feel or have felt this way. I have been feeling this for a few weeks on and off.
Tomorrow I will be 17 weeks and I really want to get emotionally attached to my unborn baby but every time I feel like I am I shut myself down because I'm worried and anxious about my anatomy scan. I know I probably have no reason to worry but I worry that they will find something abnormal and that the baby won't live after birth. I'm not even worried about Down syndrome or anything I would be blessed to have a baby with Down syndrome I just don't want to have a still born. Anyone else feel or have felt this way. I have been feeling this for a few weeks on and off.
17.04.2017
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Chloelee101·Мама дочки (7 лет)
I paid for a private scan at 14 weeks and found out I'm having a little girl❤ they couldint tell me anything else other then gender and her heart was beating a strong 158 BPM. My anatomy scan is on Monday may 1st so not too far away!
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I just always remind myself that something bad COULD happen to anyone in my family. My mom could get cancer, my brother could be in a bad car wreck and I don't sit here worrying about it every second. Odds are I will have a happy healthy baby and I keep reminding myself of that every day:) it helps ease my anxiety a little bit❤
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I'm hoping I feel better after the anatomy scan but I'm glad I'm not the only one❤
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I just want my baby to live I don't care about Down syndrome or anything like that. I just don't want any condition or abnormality that would not all her to live?
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I am the same way , due to my infertility for almost 7 years i got blessed with my little baby boy , im 18 weeks 3 days today , and Monday i have that exam ; and im more scarec than excited! I was told my baby boy is healthy heart beat at 157 doesnt really change much . I think maybe because i still can't feel him move ?
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I was the exact same way with my first. I went into the anatomy scan terrified instead of excited even though there was no reason to worry. Once I found out he was a boy and the scan was really going well, I relaxed and got so excited and was so happy to know we were having a son. :)
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I still worry about this at 24 weeks.
And like you said, the worry has made it somewhat difficult to feel attached but I have to put that anxiety to the back of my mind for the babies sake.
Try not to stress about it. I know it's easier said than done.
What helps me is my heartbeat monitor I bought on Amazon. When I worry, I use it and listen to his little heartbeat and it calms my nerves somewhat.
And like you said, the worry has made it somewhat difficult to feel attached but I have to put that anxiety to the back of my mind for the babies sake.
Try not to stress about it. I know it's easier said than done.
What helps me is my heartbeat monitor I bought on Amazon. When I worry, I use it and listen to his little heartbeat and it calms my nerves somewhat.
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