just need to breathe...
Okay so I just found out last week im pregnant with baby #5...so let me back things up ive been with my s.o for 3 years we have had a rough first year together. We fought all the time we fell pregnant with our first son together and we split right after i was with some one else threw most my pregnancy but it didnt work out and threw my hole pregnancy i always kept the babys dad informed of everything. Anyways we were always all over each other and when we got back together after our first split up it picked up like nothing happen we got better never fought always was a true family we did everything together and our sex life was never a issue (sorry for tmi) any who lately we moved in with my mom and things went down hill we didnt have much of a bedroom life being we lived with my mom now we moved on our own and its like we are so distant we are just roommates. We are lucky to have sex twice a month i joke around and touch him and he finds a reason to complain cause I did. He use to go to bed when i did now hes up late on playstation playing games till 2 or 3 am and then falls asleep so i have to wake up to wake him up to come to bed and in seconds he back out hes always complaining about everything He's dont help me with anything if he does its complaining and mumbling under his breathe. I just feel like we have grown apart and idk what to do any more i feel more alone than anything i know hes not cheating as hes never texting or on fb ect its just he rather video games or tv then his family idk what to do I just want to break down and give up i tried talking but it dont help ugh
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I know he suffers from depression himself and like he always makes sure me and the babies are well taken care if even if we fight or are distant. If i go any where he goes right with me even if its running to a store for 2 seconds. Ive checked his playstation ive checked fb and his phones ECT. Theres nothing hes not a big fb person anyways jts more like video games is his real world and we are the fake one if that makes sence the most he does on his phone is again games I've peeked over his shoulder at night to see and there was just games on his phone. Last night he came to bed a half hour after i did and he was all cuddly and a bit touchy but then fell asleep and that was it
Op you honestly don’t know that and how do you know who he’s playing with when your sleeping?? I’m not saying that it’s through the game but he can have a fake fb or other account it’s extremely easy to do, or someone at work, coffee place, etc ...
That kind of distance and reaction is extreme and a huge indicator that he is getting that emotional or physical connection somewhere else..
The fact that he won’t do counciling or work on this is telling you point blank that he’s checked out, that he doesn’t love you enough to fix this...
He’s already checked out and you can’t do this on your own op, it takes 2 people giving 100/100 both completely on board to make a relationship work, both parties completely committed, if not your just beating a dead horse...
This relationship is going to only get worse, in the end it will fail or you will be living in pure misery...
Good luck op ...
He won't do counciling and I know he only plays with his family or guys from work i know there's deff no cheating. Its like theirs just a distance for some reason
Keep the baby or Abortion.......
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That might just be your life now. ??♀️ he could be depressed, but you said he doesn’t want to see a counselor.