feel so alone
My mom left today. So the help i had with my little one is not here:( i feel so alone my mom always went with me everywhere helped with the kids and only adult talk to besides my husband since i have no friends out where i live. I have been out here four years and never meant another mom or someone i can relate with. Today has been tough. To top it off my husband barely helps with the kids or cleaning he works 7 to 6 than showers and relaxes :/
Similar situation have a few "friends" here but don't see anyone in person SO works 6 days a week at 3pm n will get home anywhere between 10pm and 2am n goes in atleast 3 of those days for a couple hours mid morning n probably 4 hours every other Sunday which is supposedly his day off n be sleeps till 10-11. We only have one vehicle so I'm stuck at home most the time with 3 kids(almost 4, 2 and 4 months) do all the cooking cleaning and child care pretty well on my own lol it's a lot of work and can be very lonely. Best advice would be join a mommy n me group or mom n baby yoga put your self out there. Hang in there momma you got this!
Yea true and its prabley cuz my husband is bipolar. And one is 4 years old and other is 16 weeks.yea i have 2 tht r long distance. But its hard to find good friends. :/
Try to stay on top of it so he won't. How old are your kids?
I think it depends on one's personality. I really don't have any friends either but it's also a choice b/c some friendships were to much work and some just fake so I decided to cut them off. I honestly only have one friend and we see each other once in awhile b/c she's so busy and we have life's and my ex-boss is actually someone I actually started to hang out with. I was her kids Nanny's.
You'll find mommy friends where you least expect it.
Yes the problem is he says will help does for a couple days than back to square one. Hmm i wonder if they have mommy and me groups where i am. Ehh so lonely. Am i that bad where i dont have friends. And thats about how long my mom was here
Kinda in the same boat. My mom just moved out after living with us for almost 2years. My lo is 4month.
You could try going to the library for story time and meet some mom or find a baby and me group.
Also I don't think is not fair for your husband to not help at all. They are his kids too and his home also. Y'all should talk and find a routine that works. My husband leaves for work at 6:30 and gets home anywhere from 6-9 depending how much work he has and still manage to help with the baby while I cook dinner or finish cooking, or can do some laundry /cleaning.

Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.




I’m all in my feelings today because today my sweet angel would have been 2, it hurts so much
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance that’s none of nobody business i seen to many of these post judging women of how they take care of there kids i’m a single mother of three and if i need assistance that’s my business not anybody else times is hard out here sorry if everybody don’t get help from there husbands or boyfriends or kids father it is single moms out here that is going to make sure there babies eat i said ...
Thank you everyone for your support. I need to look for mommy and baby classes.