feel so alone
My mom left today. So the help i had with my little one is not here:( i feel so alone my mom always went with me everywhere helped with the kids and only adult talk to besides my husband since i have no friends out where i live. I have been out here four years and never meant another mom or someone i can relate with. Today has been tough. To top it off my husband barely helps with the kids or cleaning he works 7 to 6 than showers and relaxes :/
Similar situation have a few "friends" here but don't see anyone in person SO works 6 days a week at 3pm n will get home anywhere between 10pm and 2am n goes in atleast 3 of those days for a couple hours mid morning n probably 4 hours every other Sunday which is supposedly his day off n be sleeps till 10-11. We only have one vehicle so I'm stuck at home most the time with 3 kids(almost 4, 2 and 4 months) do all the cooking cleaning and child care pretty well on my own lol it's a lot of work and can be very lonely. Best advice would be join a mommy n me group or mom n baby yoga put your self out there. Hang in there momma you got this!
Yea true and its prabley cuz my husband is bipolar. And one is 4 years old and other is 16 weeks.yea i have 2 tht r long distance. But its hard to find good friends. :/
Try to stay on top of it so he won't. How old are your kids?
I think it depends on one's personality. I really don't have any friends either but it's also a choice b/c some friendships were to much work and some just fake so I decided to cut them off. I honestly only have one friend and we see each other once in awhile b/c she's so busy and we have life's and my ex-boss is actually someone I actually started to hang out with. I was her kids Nanny's.
You'll find mommy friends where you least expect it.
Yes the problem is he says will help does for a couple days than back to square one. Hmm i wonder if they have mommy and me groups where i am. Ehh so lonely. Am i that bad where i dont have friends. And thats about how long my mom was here
Kinda in the same boat. My mom just moved out after living with us for almost 2years. My lo is 4month.
You could try going to the library for story time and meet some mom or find a baby and me group.
Also I don't think is not fair for your husband to not help at all. They are his kids too and his home also. Y'all should talk and find a routine that works. My husband leaves for work at 6:30 and gets home anywhere from 6-9 depending how much work he has and still manage to help with the baby while I cook dinner or finish cooking, or can do some laundry /cleaning.
Thank you everyone for your support. I need to look for mommy and baby classes.