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very happy and sad just weird anyone else?

very happy and sad just weird anyone else?

So this will be my 2nd pregnancy and 2nd son. On tuesday im scheduled for my c section. And emotions are just going through my head like im so excited i get to meet him soon. But in other hands my 4 year old, its a huge change from only have one kid for 4 years. I keep feeling like we need to do something me him and his dad as one last family time. Just feel like everything is about to change. Which i know it will, duh! But its making me very teary eyed knowing that. Has anyone else felt this way? I just want my son to know no matter what mom loves him, just worried wont have that time with him with me nursing and not getting sleep, than him being in school now. :/

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bree

Gabriela'smama

Thank you all for your support❤ im glad im not alone. Im hopeing for the same, were things turn out to be alot better when little man arrives.maybe im overthinking it. I noticed its better with a routine. To be honest i never had one before with my son. Now that he has started school, we have started one. Let me tell you that i wish i wouldve started sooner with a routine. U live and learn thats forsure.?

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I feel the same way I have a three and a half year old boy in about to have our second boy we've been trying to prepare him he already knows his brother's name in his brother's bed. I'm due within 2 weeks so we've been trying to have extra family time and starting this week we'd started taking some walks and doing living room dance party

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I felt this way when I went from 1 to 2. . I actually had a panic attack right before my csection. It was definitely a hard adjustment for the 1st couple of weeks, but you eventually find a routine and it gets better. We just had our 3rd and I didn't feel that way. Good luck.

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I felt like this when I went from 1 to 2, my daughter was also 4. She did much better than I ever would have imagined, and the two of them, despite the big age gap, are crazy for each other. It's really the sweetest thing I've ever witnessed. So try not to sweat it mama, we worry but there is more love to go around than we can imagine. Time gets tricky, but you'll find your balance ?

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