Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I think my husband is cheating on me 😔he’s been acting really different. There are times he doesnt text back or answer his phone. He’ll block me or turn off his phone. Then he’s gone for hours at a time and he doesn’t want me to go anywhere with him. Today he changed my name in his phone and deleted a whole bunch of stuff.
Need serious relationship advice!! SO has been acting really shady lately and Saturday he was going “evening fishing” for a few hours which I didn’t think much of until he was literally rushing me to go to my Moms all day like ever so often I’d hear “so what time you leaving” or “when you going to your moms” so when my aunt dropped our daughter back off at home me and her left literally 10 mins later cause he was ready to go fishing. We come to my moms to hangout and he goes fishing. Hours pass by and he’s now stopped texting (we hadn’t texted much anyways only about 4 texts total) but then after I tried to call him several times texts stopped going through as iMessage and calls were straight to voicemail. I began to get worried cause it was now almost 3 am. He finally texts and says that his phone died. Apparently he left the creek he was at around 9 to go out on the boat with his buddy from work.. weird parts are “he didn’t think to tell me” but his phone hadn’t died yet. My texts stopped going through about 10:30. Another weird things is, he texted me on his way home but his car charger was in my car.. not his truck. Then all day yesterday he acted really weird and al day today he’s gave the cold shoulder and now he’s “not happy with the relationship” 🤔 I normally wouldn’t go through his phone but he’s on it CONSTANTLY and I’m literally not allowed to touch it. Like even if we’re playing music in the car or something I can’t pick a song on it and when we stop as gas stations or something even if I’m literally singing the song or something he’ll unplug it and take it in. Soooo how horrible of a person would I be if I went through it while he’s asleep? I know he’ll throw the biggest fit ever if I find something and confront him but I’m literally going insane and need to know. PS.. he’s got a track record of cheating on me once before....
This girl sent me videos on snapchat of her and my boyfriend having sex and he’s lying to everyone trying to make me seem crazy but I see his entire face in the video. The girl is saying she is pregnant by him and he’s lying saying “it’s someone that looks like me it’s not me in the video” I’m just so tired of him taking me for a joke. I have to go through this and our son is due January 1st he’s yelling at me for crying honestly I don’t even want him in the room when I have my son I can’t even look at him and he’s acting like the victim when he got caught. I left my moms house to go live with him in his moms basement where I am barely welcomed. With all this going on I can’t even be excited for my sons arrival I never imagined my pregnancy to be like this and I went through his phone and his friend called me fat and he did nothing but laugh. I’m just tired of feeling like I’m no one, like I’m not important, no one should treat their kids mother like this.
I’ve been with my annoying man for 2yrs now and he always think I’m cheating on him...yet he his my location on his phone which is annoying as HELL...
Stephanie ·
@chynabovian2174 if you go back the cycle will never end.. you just start becoming numb to it and like you said you deserve better.
phoenix🔥·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@chynabovian2174, how are you feeling? Are you doing any better?
Autumn Horton·
Мама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет), ждёт третьего
Smh these men are horrible
Angela·
@chynabovian2174 im sorry your goin thru this pregnant.:/ You stay strong mama
Chyna Bovian·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (15 нед.)
As I woke up today I haven’t spoken to him I blocked him and his family member numbers and I just feel so much anger to the point I wanna be spiteful let his job know what’s going on and it’s not only one it’s 2
Mimi·
Speaking from experience he won’t change, he will never love or respect you the way you do him. You have the confirmation girl leave him your children are all you need and everytime you feel the littlest bit weak for him reread the messages and relive the cheating and say fuck him. You deserve better and your children deserve better, feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to or vent to no judgement I’ve been there!
Ashley·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (36 нед.)
You're better than that and him. Don't worry yourself over a BOY that doesn't deserve you. No MAN would do this to his preggo spouse. He can live his life in an awkward love triangle with his ain't sh*t momma supporting his disrespectful and disgusting habits.
Just remember...if he wants to play with rocks instead enjoying the diamond he has...then he is the dumb one. NOT YOU!!!!
phoenix🔥·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I’m also really sorry you are going through this. Send him all of the evidence you have because men only admit to what they know you know and end the relationship. Don’t get all upset and stressed out during your pregnancy and your relationship will only get worse. Had a similar situation with tinder except I don’t know exactly who he met because he deleted most of the conversation and still won’t admit it. I was 5 months pregnant when it started my daughter is almost 3 months old and I’m still really angry.
phoenix🔥·
Мама двоих (младенец)
He’s caught. Just break it off now
Chyna Bovian·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (15 нед.)
It does hurt bad this is the first guy I ever been with I’ve been with him for so long I’ve never developed feelings for another man like I have for him it’s different because I can’t let go i try to so many times he always end up back home I feel weak for letting him walk all over me like a door mat I don’t know what it’s like to be with any one else I have no support from my family when it comes to him I get cursed out and called all types of names because I’m still with him after I told my family what he’s done I don’t have no one to talk to about my problems anger is building up in me so much I cry every day asking god what I’ve done so wrong for this type of treatment I’m getting
Marilu·
If you have confirmation think of it this way... if you end it now it’ll hurt but soon you’ll be over it and doing better for you and your kids. If you don’t end it you’ll continue getting hurt over and over and in 5, 10 years you’ll wish you hadn’t wasted your life with this cheater. Regret sucks.
Your Mom Is A Troll·
@moski, 100% agree. You’re making the right choice to be done with him.
👻·
Damn. That’s all around fkd up. If you already got confirmation that he is cheating then you’re making the right decision to end the relationship! I can’t believe his mom let him cheat on you at her house. Scandalous AF.