I need to rant and not be judge I feel so f****** stupid at this Point My S/O and I live together He works and always end up at his mom house I’m 14 week with my 2nd baby my son is 8 months Old I love him to death I love my S/O as well but I honestly Don’t know how much of the lies I can take any more I deserve way better then this he constantly lies to me The days that he leave work early he’s no where to be found or answering the phone hours later he’s at his mom House I recently found out he’s cheating on me I’m fed the F*%k up He told me he wasn’t cheating and I logged into his Snapchat and iCloud just to see a bunch of females numbers saved into his phone his messages would come to my phone And he state he isn’t cheating but the girl confirmed that the we’re sleeping together for a while at my house and his mom house it would be nights he wouldn’t come home and wouldn’t answer the phone I’m overwhelmed I can’t focus I can’t eat or sleep and I’m drained I’m supposed to be taking better care of my self for my kids his mom makes matters worst she’s forever butting in our business and taking his side 24/7 I just don’t know what to do any more
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@chynabovian2174, how are you feeling? Are you doing any better?
@chynabovian2174 im sorry your goin thru this pregnant.:/ You stay strong mama
As I woke up today I haven’t spoken to him I blocked him and his family member numbers and I just feel so much anger to the point I wanna be spiteful let his job know what’s going on and it’s not only one it’s 2
Speaking from experience he won’t change, he will never love or respect you the way you do him. You have the confirmation girl leave him your children are all you need and everytime you feel the littlest bit weak for him reread the messages and relive the cheating and say fuck him. You deserve better and your children deserve better, feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to or vent to no judgement I’ve been there!
You're better than that and him. Don't worry yourself over a BOY that doesn't deserve you. No MAN would do this to his preggo spouse. He can live his life in an awkward love triangle with his ain't sh*t momma supporting his disrespectful and disgusting habits.
Just remember...if he wants to play with rocks instead enjoying the diamond he has...then he is the dumb one. NOT YOU!!!!
I’m also really sorry you are going through this. Send him all of the evidence you have because men only admit to what they know you know and end the relationship. Don’t get all upset and stressed out during your pregnancy and your relationship will only get worse. Had a similar situation with tinder except I don’t know exactly who he met because he deleted most of the conversation and still won’t admit it. I was 5 months pregnant when it started my daughter is almost 3 months old and I’m still really angry.
It does hurt bad this is the first guy I ever been with I’ve been with him for so long I’ve never developed feelings for another man like I have for him it’s different because I can’t let go i try to so many times he always end up back home I feel weak for letting him walk all over me like a door mat I don’t know what it’s like to be with any one else I have no support from my family when it comes to him I get cursed out and called all types of names because I’m still with him after I told my family what he’s done I don’t have no one to talk to about my problems anger is building up in me so much I cry every day asking god what I’ve done so wrong for this type of treatment I’m getting
If you have confirmation think of it this way... if you end it now it’ll hurt but soon you’ll be over it and doing better for you and your kids. If you don’t end it you’ll continue getting hurt over and over and in 5, 10 years you’ll wish you hadn’t wasted your life with this cheater. Regret sucks.
@moski, 100% agree. You’re making the right choice to be done with him.
Damn. That’s all around fkd up. If you already got confirmation that he is cheating then you’re making the right decision to end the relationship! I can’t believe his mom let him cheat on you at her house. Scandalous AF.
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