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Ashlee Golding
Ashlee Golding
Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

This is what happens when a littles sister doesn't listen and goes a bit bridezilla. She wants all her sisters to wear…

This is what happens when a littles sister doesn't listen and goes a bit bridezilla. She wants all her sisters to wear the same thing for her wedding in a few weeks. I told her "I can wear something as similar as I can make it, but being pregnant I can't wear the same exact thing. It just won't work". Then she settled on a denim shirt dress. Cute, but wouldn't work on me normally, let alone pregnant (I'm pretty tall). She said she'd just femme a bigger size to fit over the tummy. I told her the tummy would also make it even shorter. She wouldn't listen.

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Lol yup

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I love to see the temple, I'm going there some day.... lol

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Update: well I fixed it. Picture in another post

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Post an after pic so we can see the final results when you're done!

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Wel success. I found. The fabric I needed at the first store I tried. Now to figure out just how I wanna do this.

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

In the meantime a I'm going to find some matching fabric and redo the whole bottom half of the dress.

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

She hasn't talked to me about it at all. She's just been freaking out to my mother. I guess, from what I hear, she's trying to find something to replace it but given this disaster I don't have high hopes ?

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I just don't think this is salvageable. What did your sister say when you showed her what it looks like on you?

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Could you sew some lace or something 'boho' onto the bottom to extend the length a bit?

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Wear it proud and if anyone asks tell them she made you wear it with no regard for your pregnancy. Whatever, its her day.

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Lord no. I don't even wax for myself or DH. No way in Hades is my sister's wedding worth that ?

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Wear this as is and instead of spending money and time trying to alter it, get a Brazilian instead. ?

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Lol. It would almost be worth it?

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Show her this. And be like you should have trusted me to find something. Enjoys. O and I'm wearing it just like this.

How do you enjoy them cookies.

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You could just day eff it and wear the basketball shorts underneath ?‍♀️ Comfortable AND practical.

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I agree with emmy. But when I looked at the link it says unavailable so you probably won't be able to get that one .

I would alter this one to be a little more form fitted and wear it as a shirt with a maxi skirt under it. If your sisters not ok with that then tell her to figure something out lol.

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I would buy the dress Emmy suggested from target and just dye it to match the dress your sister picked.

If your sister doesn't like that I would just tell her to suck it ?

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Definitely go with Emmy. Buy a whole new dress then add a small belt above belly to give it some definition.

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Has your sister never seen a pregnant lady before?

How could she possibly think it would work.

Ohhhh poor you. I hope you can find an alternative maternity dress in denim she might be happy with.

It's her wedding & she can have an input but not at the expense of you being completely uncomfortable!

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Definitely going with @emmy's suggestion. It's pretty close.

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I am with Emmy. Grab the Target dress she posted (hell, make it two, just in case) and you should be able to dye it the darker jean colour. Take the not-fitting dress and the fitting dress to a fabric store and ask for help for dyes. The ladies at those places are usually fantastic about these types of things.

Cause I sew for fun, and I could tell you how to make it more flattering, but unless you add some serious length to it (by adding more fabric) there is nothing that can be done about your entire front being exposed. There just isn't enough there to be altered. Also, the amount of altering to make it look like a dress shirt deal instead of an old mans shirt really isn't worth it, especially with the sleeves.

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Idk why your sister would WANT you to wear that anyway. I mean I get it's her wedding but does she know it's her wedding? Lol- sorry. I legit would not in any way even remotely stress it. It's summer and you're pregnant. I'd hit up Amazon prime, get something your completely comfortable in and get it in a couple days and keep it moving. Got my baby shower dress for $18- and it's versatile top, flowy and I'm using it for maternity pics because it's that pretty. Help your sister out by finding an actual dress for her wedding that youll feel and look great in.

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Belt around your waist like Brittney posted to give it some shape (I would think even non-pregnant ppl would need at add shape to that thing!) and then find similar fabric to add a layered look on the bottom to increase the length. You can do it!

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Well she already wants everyone to see your vag.. might as well make it comfy for yourself ?

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

It'll be in Utah and probably around 95 outside. Maybe I'll just make it into a swimming suit and at least not sweat to death ???

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Just looked on targets website. They have a denim maternity dress by Liz Lang! Or maybe buy a maternity dress that matches the colors in her wedding and tailor that as a cute little jacket to go over it? Also maybe check amazon?

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I'm sorry but it looks like an oversized men's shirt .. looks nothing like a dress in the first place..... regardless of your adorable bump underneath

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That is just not flattering. Is it hot where you are?! I'm literally sweating looking at this and I'm not even pregnant. She is so unreasonable.

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Ya this is not going to work!

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By her wedding everyone will be able to see your birth canal in that dress.

She's going to have to work with you on finding something else that fits her theme and will fit your bump. Good luck!

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Ok, so maybe a burlap/boho looking belt around your waist like this ( https://www.google.com/search?q=burlap+wedding+belt&client=ms-android-verizon&sa=X&biw=360&bih=560&noj=1&tbs=vw:g,ss:44&tbm=shop&srpd=15560835046680464713&prds=num:1,of:1,epd:15560835046680464713&ved=0ahUKEwjKuqH4tJbVAhXB5yYKHUfbA5kQgjYIpAU) and a white with lace at the bottom slip underneath? It will be short, but the lace should add length. Idk, that's my best advice if you're trying to keep this shirt. Lol

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You're going to need a new dress. There's no way I could see altering that to work. Go check out maternity stores, target, Wal-Mart, old navy, etc.

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She's being unreasonable there's no way that's gonna work especially if she doesn't want you to wear leggings under it.

Maybe you can find a denim skirt and matching top?

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I have and she's freaking out about it. It wouldn't have become such and issue if she had listened to me months ago

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Send her this pic and say it doesn't fit

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

It is hot as hell and it's an outdoor reception lol. I'll be hot regardless but yeah.

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Yikes! Even with altering the dress, I don't see how it can work! I agree get something new that's similar.

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That looks hot and like it's not gonna work. Sorry ?

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I think you need to find a whole different outfit tbh...find something you like and check in with her..

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I thought about leggings but she's completely against that. It has to be a dress. And yes it's denim. She's got a kind of boho-chic theme. Burlap and lace kinda thing.

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I would try to find a maternity dress of a similar style. Target or Old Navy would be your best bet. Have her reimburse you. ?

$9 on Target. Probably your best bet. I had this one actually, really liked it.

https://www.target.com/p/maternity-tencel-174-dress-medium-wash-liz-lange-174-for-target/-/A-50356034#lnk=sametab

Chambray so not exactly the same, but similar. $18

http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?pid=772043002&vid=1&locale=en_US&kwid=1&sem=false&sdkw=maternity-tie-belt-chambray-shirt-dress-P772043&brandCvoSid=GB35U2D7CHSP&sdReferer=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.oldnavy.com%2Fproducts%2Fmaternity-dresses.jsp

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Leggings or tights underneath?

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Yea.... no way that's going to turn into a dress. Sorry, OP.

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Maybe tights underneath it.?

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five_little_angels

Ashlee GoldingМама двоих (2 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Not to mention the angles on it make me look like a whale ??

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