Ashlee Golding
five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Hate adulting!

So someone in my neighborhood has 3 kittens they need to find homes for (not a breeder they just found their cat was already knocked up when they were going to get her fixed). Anyway they're adorable and my kids want one so bad. But it just isn't a good time despite wanting one myself. So I had to struggle and talk myself out of it. DH wasn't helping saying "just do it" ?. Lol sometimes I hate having to be an adult. How about you?

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Nooooooo now someone else has adorable kittens up. Tbh it's kind of appealing how many people are just ditching their pets period not just trying to find a home for unexpected babies.

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Me too. Very interesting cross.

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Pp I'm curious to know what a St. Bernard/French mastiff looks like. He must be huge!

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Id go for it, i actually have 5x (pups/kittens)

-My ex boss gave me her 14yr old cat

-Bought a yorkie/Chihuahua just turned 1 in oct

-My so friend gave us a st benard/french mastiff just turned 1 dec.

-Got a kitten from some random guy will be 1 in july

_My ex boss's grandson gabe me a blue merl Chihuahua just turn 1, jan 7 (my bday)

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I foster kittiezzz. ? sooooo....

If you're cool with scooping the litter box, feeding, vetting, and doing the furniture battle for the next 14 years then I say go for it. Kittens grow fast.

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I wouldn't get the cat. I love cats. But it wouldn't be fair to your family or the cat if it's not the right time.

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Lol Canadian. Obviously not a forum filled with women like us ? only a few have sided with her ? the rest of us aren't much help reassuring her.

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GAH!!! I want a kitten so bad atmo!!!! I have to stop myself from getting one and I really really want one!!!! We have 2 dogs, 1 cat, 1 horse, 1 pony, 1 cow and 10 chickens (We have 24 1/2 acres). We have heaps for room for a kitten but OH keeps telling me no. And hes right atmo. Hes not able to work due to a football injury that could see him not working for 6mths. Thank god we have income protection!! But I want a kitten!!!!

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Pets are ok in the house. We have a dog and have paid the pet deposit. But it still just isn't a great time lol

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I would house a cat before a dog.

I would so not be am adult and take one in.

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?Pp what forum should she have posted in, is there a kitten haters forum for her to go to lol ?

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Ps op adulting is so overrated ?

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There are automatic cat food/water feeders, and automatic cat litter boxes that clean themselves, I have had tons of cats over my life, non peed anywhere but their litter box, or scratched anything but their scratching post, just make sure to get them a scratching post asap.

With the auto feeders and litter box we could leave for a week or so and my Siamese cat would be perfectly happy, we get home , I'd get tons of love from her, and everything would be great...

Cats are soooo easy to care for, they are extremely low maintenance and very self sufficient.

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Go get you kittens ?

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Do it get that kitty ?

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Don't do it in a rental. Not without permission first.

Idk I just can't get behind pets in general. You travel a lot and that would be my deciding factor. We do too and I can't imagine having to set up care and being restricted. I'm just not an animal lover anyway, I guess.

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Get the kitten!????

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Are u even allowed to have a pet when renting? That's something to consider. Would your rent go up monthly with a pet? If u travel a lot it is easier with a cat but u would still need someone to come check on the cat change litter and feed if it's longer then like 2 days!! Also my cats started peeing all over my house and totally destroyed my carpets. So I personally won't ever have any other pets

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I think you A. Picked the wrong forum to vent to. Or B. Knew we'd all be like this so that your guilt didn't bother you as bad when you get one.

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If my husband was on board I would do it!! Lol

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Do it ?

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We have 4 dogs, 3 cats, 2 rabbits, 2 baby chicks, a fish and a salamander ? Planning on getting a turtle soon!! And I still would've taken all 3 of those kittens lol

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Go get all 3

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Kittens basically take care of themselves. They just need food and a clean litter box. I am no help!

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Believe me I was/am very torn on it. We can afford vet care. We all live animals. DH has a mild allergy but says he'd deal with it, however, it's a lot of added baggage should we want to travel which we do often. And we live in a rental so I am a bit leery of too many pets and carpet that doesn't belong to me lol.

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But it's a cute cuddly kitten. And your husband actually approves! What are you waiting for?

I have no self control. Can you tell?

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

Y'all aren't helping ?

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We have 4 dogs, 2 cats, and 2 turtles.... I would have ended up with 3 kittens?

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I would've taken the kitten, maybe all of them ? I'm no help! We own a zoo of animals at our house lol

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I'm on his side! Lol go for it!

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I would also choose not to adult, provided I knew we could afford the necessary vet care (3 sets of shots/deworming and a spay or neuter).

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That's one of the times I would be totally irresponsible and decide not to adult lol.

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five_little_angels
Ashlee Golding·Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

So someone in my neighborhood has 3 kittens they need to find homes for (not a breeder they just found their cat was already knocked up when they were going to get her fixed). Anyway they're adorable and my kids want one so bad. But it just isn't a good time despite wanting one myself. So I had to struggle and talk myself out of it. DH wasn't helping saying "just do it" ?. Lol sometimes I hate having to be an adult. How about you?

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