Short Luteal Phase?

I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

Just curious..

When did you ladies first have sex? I had just turned 18 when I did.

Birth Plan Rant

I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?

Pregnancy Challenge Day 1: 5 facts about me (because I never officially introduced myself when u first joined Preggie 😜)

1. I speak five languages and have since I was 7 when I learned the 5th one

2. I'm currently Prego with first baby it's a boy and we are naming him Ezra due August 1.

3. I am Chinese, Malaysian, and Hawaiian

4. I am obsessed with pasta and eat it two meals a day.

5. I have mild OCD with organization and keeping things in a certain place.

When should I be getting a BFP on a first response test....it's 2 days before my expected period. I got several faints on the cheapys...but when I took my first response this mornings THiNK I see something but I can barely see anything. I know it's not just me because my friend and bf see it as well. But you have to seriously look for it?? I'm confused!