Trying not to give up! Looking for some encouragement/support. I haven't posted on this site since…
Trying not to give up!
Looking for some encouragement/support. I haven't posted on this site since last year. It's been a hard road for me. I've had two miscarriages and two ectopic pregnancies with the last ectopic rupturing; costing me my right tube and almost my life. I am still grateful to say that I do have a beautiful daughter that is 5yrs old that was born in between the madness after the first two miscarriages. I have been trying to give her a sibling since she turned 3. She asks me all the time and it's becoming unbearable!
deleted-user·
Chin up my lady... I'm so sorry your going through this, there are days I feel like giving up but they are bad days although I have been trying for a little over year it gets discouraging and I completely understand that because I feel like we together ttc community if you would call it that get discouraged easily since we want this child so badly it eats us up inside everyday. You have Gone through a lot of horror over the last few years obviously and I'm so heart broken for you but you are not alone remember that ... and maybe taking a break and doing something nice or a few nice things for yourself and focusing on that for a while... and try not to think about it... kinda like if it happens it happens kinda thing, because nobody can really make you feel then her but yourself and you know maybe my words don't help with that I just thought maybe I would put my two cents and I know it's difficult but I'm also having a difficult time I've just kind of learn to let go of the situation and not focus so hard on wether to give up or to keep trying just relax... I no you've had a hard time and nobody can feel your pain... have you also considered talking to a doctor about it I'm sure you have but there's that too...
Leslie·
Thanks almond!! I did try the "relaxed approach" and took a break after the first ectopic, ended up pregnant got excited to only find out that it was another ectopic when my right tube burst. Thanks so much for responding because I can't talk anyone in person, no one can relate. Good luck to you as well...
Leslie·
Oh forgot about the last part of your post... my doctor can't find anything wrong at the moment.
deleted-user·
Well if you need anything talk wise obviously I'm here or I'll try to be I'm not always on here but I'm sorry your going through this like i said do something nice for yourself and try and relax because all this stress isn't good for baby making ether and I guess I look at it like if it's meant to be it's meant to be... and we can't control anything and it sucks but it's really out of our control. But I really think taking a break would be good deleting this app maybe even not putting any though into it.. I mean you can get pregnant it's just for some reason you keep having these miscarriages and ectopics but why? Maybe try and also find another doctor... I've had one doctor tell me one thing and another tell me something else.. okay idk sorry lol going on and on....