Thanks, mama!! We're probably left more traumatized than they are!

The fact that it bothers you so much shows your a good mommy.. don't be so hard on yourself. I have had things like this happen that still I think about today .. 4 years ago I had to clean my house and my 3 month old was asleep on my bed so I used a baby monitor and started cleaning.. well apparently the baby monitor stopped working because when I went upstairs he had clearly been crying for sometime I felt soooo bad for years about this ?

Whenever I see a "pro cry it out" post I think of this day and just don't understand how people choose that method.