Yeah my SO Is scared of shaking the baby up. Oh puhleaseeeee

I haven't been able to have sex in 7 weeks and I'm going insane!!!!! It's by far the worst part about bed rest!!!! You're not even allowed to make yourself climax!!! I have 8 more weeks till I'm 35 weeks and can have sex again, but I'm sure by then I'm not gonna want it anymore lol

In the first trimester I was hella horny. Cumming was super easy (easier actually) and everything felt so much better. I felt like a goddess, with child, a life created! Now when my SO touches my clit I squirm away. It feels so weird. When I can be bothered enough to cum, my uterus is as hard as a rock. It's like she curled up inside the darkest part of me "mom, what's happening? Stop this nonsense!"

My SO isn't bad about it.... He actually is very attracted to me while pregnant, its me who is having a little trouble..lol...I'm so big now that I wonder if we will even be able to do it later on!!!!!! He is a trooper though, but I'm like, "me on top, so not happening!!!!"

I definitely don't have the smooth moves I used to have but we still enjoy it. I'm hoping it will be like my last pregnancy and I will enjoy it straight up till the end.

I find it just get kinda sad thinking about our sex life. Normally it's most days. Like if we don't it's strange. Between sickness, fatigue and prenatal depression kicking in we don't have our normal life. Lucky my s/o acts like it's not big deal. That being said the last 2 weeks I found I love me on top. But being 30 weeks with twins I am beyond what that considered 40 weeks with a singleton. So my belly literally rests against his stomach. At first it bothered me till I saw his reaction when I moved and it felt good.

Sex has gotten weird to say the least lol. I don't wanna be on top cause I'm too lazy for all that nonsense these days, he doesn't wanna be on top cause my belly pokes him and makes him feel like he's crushing her. Sometimes I am really in the mood but most times I just wanna help him out so that's why I do it lol.

Sometimes I wish my other half was scared of doing it .. but no .. there's no stopping him! although I get very frustrated and upset and I can't preform how I should be able to and feel like a sack of spuds! I wouldn't say my sex drive has gone .. it's just I want sex .. but I always want food, sleep, rest etc and they are easier to fulfil atm lol

AND I've become very self conscious of my body .. so no doggy style or exciting positions either :(

I guess I'm one of the few that still love and enjoy sex. lol Other than a few awkward positions that didn't work out due to the bump, We plan on doing the deed all the way up until. :)

I hate having sex its uncomfortable abd painful when he 1st goes in ugh i just rather not have sex

Seeing everyone's posts makes me feel better lol I didn't want to be one of those girls that stopped having sex while pregnant but it's seriously such a chore lately. I'm tired, it's uncomfortable and I don't feel attractive. We're lucky if we do it once a fortnight now whereas before it was like 3-4 times a week. Husband is very understanding thank goodness but I do feel bad for him.

:( I'm just stressed atm so for the past week, I haven't been in the mood. He tried before going to bed earlier but I didn't want to and I could hear the disappointment in his breathing! I want to cry because I feel like I'm failing .... :,(

My husband gets turned on by touching my belly and whenever I tell him Vero is moving he places his hand over and says "go to sleep, let mami enjoy what papi is doing to her"

And I just love it?

We were looking foward having sex all the way till the end...but due to bed rest we can no longer enjoy our last trimester doing the deed?

It sucks because pregnancy has made me hornier and now I cant even have oral sex????

We've tried a couple times. Last night we tried and way too dry for me it hurts... Then I feel like I'm failing him and start to cry because I can't give him pleasure I just feel bad. I'm not that big considering I'm 27weeks I don't know why I feel wet down there but it was totally dry!!

Yaaaaa I wish I could say I want it all the time but I don't. I feel huge, and the only position that's possible is spooning or some variation of that which does nothing for me lol. I'm looking forward to being intimate and feeling sexy again after this!

I am not about sex AT ALL! I haven't been this whole pregnant. I feel really bad. If I actually let him, I don't think there's anything that would stop him. Poor guy...lol

I'm so jealous of you ladies.

I want to have sex... Wahhhhhh! ?

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I want it. All. The. Time. So much more than my husband. The weirdest thing that goes on in our bedroom is him not being in the mood instead of me and me ambushing him.

I'm so not into it. I feel the baby pushing against my belly all the time & it's so uncomfortable. I hurt & I'm tired. But I still put out like twice a week...w a little friend ?

It's so weird, w my first I was jumping him like 2x a day. Very different feelings this time

We tried to the other night and my husband said I sounded like he was hurting me ? well that's because I'm 30 weeks and can't freaking breath with my legs behind my head, ass hat!

Our best position is him sitting against our head board & me on top... or if I'm too tired then I tell him to do the work I'm ready for bed lol.. just waiting to embarrass myself by peeing on him

Same thing happened to me. Gettin it in and he felt baby girl move! Needless to say, my night was sexless after that!?

@GemmaLove spooning is basically the only position we can do, too. It's too much work already! And we've still got a ways to go!

Mine can hardly bring himself to. We had sex for the first time in 27 days (yes I counted lol) 2 nights ago. We had to do it in the spooning position. I think he just didn't want to see my belly. It went well though so fx I don't need to wait another 27 days! That's the longest it's ever been!

SO wont do it :( im sooooo horny all the time and he says hes too worried. I end up having to do it myself, not the same :(

By the time I'm done rolling around trying to get into a comfortable position I've already gotten too tired to be bothered with it. I let him get his then I make him scratch my back to replace the orgasm I didn't have.

"How do you want it babe?"

"Just hurry up and finish, I'm tired."

The very idea of sex has been absolutely repulsive to me for the entire pregnancy. I even gag at people making out on TV. You'd think I don't even know what it takes to become pregnant, hahaha. I have absolutely ZERO interest in anything intimate thanks to these hormones. I was single during my first pregnancy so don't know whether I felt this way the first time too.

My poor guy, he's so patient and wonderful! But I have some serious making up to do once the baby arrives + 6 weeks!

A specific time we did the do . perfectly fine ? ....then the next day we are passing each other in the house & my SO goes "oh btw babe your milk definitely has came in. Taste kind of sweet " ??? ...oh ok thanks for the info babe ? so apparently he got a taste & I had no clue milk came out. He's a champ for not making me feel embarrassed at the moment ??

We haven't, but I can barely ever get my husband to have sex lol he's so worried about the baby and it moving and all that haha we are first time parents so we haven't been through this before. I think it's hilarious how he's so weird about it lol oh and I read this to him and he goes "see no way!! I'd freak out" haha