My husband is the same way and really I suggest doing more in bed.... Being pregnant might make things a little complicated but you can't make him do something he doesn't want to do. My husband claims he never has liked doing it so I believe him. He's done it maybe 2 times. he makes up for it in bed and that's good enough for me. Although sometimes I wish he would do it more often, it's not worth being sexless and always fighting with him about whhhyyyyyy he won't go down. Way more to sex then oral even if it does feel good. Forget about it.lol
I call Bull on dropping it. I don't like giving oral to my bf that much either.. but i still do it. He really likes the 69 position but Im always on top and it killlllls my neck to hold myself up and give head at the same time lol. But, I do it regardless because he loves it, even if it's only for a little bit. I personally, would stop giving him oral sex until he gives you a better reason as to why he doesn't want to. If you have been together for 5 years, and you're married yet he still has never done it, then he doesn't really know if he likes doing it with you or not. I think, He should at least give it a shot or two before he just completely shuts the idea out. He gets his needs, it think that is only fair. My SO goes down on me but i would never expect him to do that all the time and then never get anything in return. How sad and boring :( Sorry you're dealing with this!
Girl don't force him if he doesn't want to cause it will just start an argument but I would stop giving him head... Fair is fair if u don't want to lick me clit then u can't get you dick licked... Jeez I rhymed cool lol... But I am serious
I mean if he doesn't do it or have never done it would you really want him to do it? It will probably be horrible. I understand though I love getting head so I don't really have any advice.
First, I'd stop going down on him. He needs to see that he's not being fair. Then once you have his attention I'd try talking to him about why he doesn't want to do it. If he's insecure about his ability to please you just assure him that you aren't going to judge him and that you just want a little attention down there.
Lol wow thanks alot guys but his previous relationship was with a girl who was a virgin before she had met him. So of course he loved that and went down on her ALOT! sooooooo thats why we argue about it alot
Lol wow I thought I was the only one.. my husband has only done it only a few times since we been together and I use to suck his dick pretty much everyday.. I don’t like doing it but I love him and he loves it so whatever.. he pleases me in other ways so I don’t really mind and when I really want it i stick my vagina in his face lol! And the other times I watch porn that has good p**** eating and get mine that way.. I figure it’s better than cheating or an argument. He told me he has never been comfortable doing it and I don’t force it.. but I have told him it’s not fair that women are expected to do it and men are not.. I have actually dated women for several years before him so I feel I’ve had my share of p**** eating and getting head I can compromise that for the rest of my life he makes up in many other ways..
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Drop it because it's never going to happen.
My husband is the same way and really I suggest doing more in bed.... Being pregnant might make things a little complicated but you can't make him do something he doesn't want to do. My husband claims he never has liked doing it so I believe him. He's done it maybe 2 times. he makes up for it in bed and that's good enough for me. Although sometimes I wish he would do it more often, it's not worth being sexless and always fighting with him about whhhyyyyyy he won't go down. Way more to sex then oral even if it does feel good. Forget about it.lol
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@krysta dang thats hard to hear! But i guess ur right i would much rather have sex than be sexless
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I call Bull on dropping it. I don't like giving oral to my bf that much either.. but i still do it. He really likes the 69 position but Im always on top and it killlllls my neck to hold myself up and give head at the same time lol. But, I do it regardless because he loves it, even if it's only for a little bit. I personally, would stop giving him oral sex until he gives you a better reason as to why he doesn't want to. If you have been together for 5 years, and you're married yet he still has never done it, then he doesn't really know if he likes doing it with you or not. I think, He should at least give it a shot or two before he just completely shuts the idea out. He gets his needs, it think that is only fair. My SO goes down on me but i would never expect him to do that all the time and then never get anything in return. How sad and boring :( Sorry you're dealing with this!
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Girl don't force him if he doesn't want to cause it will just start an argument but I would stop giving him head... Fair is fair if u don't want to lick me clit then u can't get you dick licked... Jeez I rhymed cool lol... But I am serious
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I mean if he doesn't do it or have never done it would you really want him to do it? It will probably be horrible. I understand though I love getting head so I don't really have any advice.
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Yikes! What's his reasoning?? Maybe get a bullet or something that he can use on you during foreplay? Idk tho... I'd be salty!
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First, I'd stop going down on him. He needs to see that he's not being fair. Then once you have his attention I'd try talking to him about why he doesn't want to do it. If he's insecure about his ability to please you just assure him that you aren't going to judge him and that you just want a little attention down there.
Cmjohnson3047·
Lol wow thanks alot guys but his previous relationship was with a girl who was a virgin before she had met him. So of course he loved that and went down on her ALOT! sooooooo thats why we argue about it alot
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Lol wow I thought I was the only one.. my husband has only done it only a few times since we been together and I use to suck his dick pretty much everyday.. I don’t like doing it but I love him and he loves it so whatever.. he pleases me in other ways so I don’t really mind and when I really want it i stick my vagina in his face lol! And the other times I watch porn that has good p**** eating and get mine that way.. I figure it’s better than cheating or an argument. He told me he has never been comfortable doing it and I don’t force it.. but I have told him it’s not fair that women are expected to do it and men are not.. I have actually dated women for several years before him so I feel I’ve had my share of p**** eating and getting head I can compromise that for the rest of my life he makes up in many other ways..