Am I the only one ??
Sometimes I get so unattached from this pregnancy. It never lasts long but sometimes I just wonder if this is how it's supposed to be, am I supposed to be a mom right now ? Am I supposed to have my baby now ? Will I be a good mom ? How will I provide for him ? How will I teach him ? Will he love me ? Will I love him ? I mean I do but idk. Those are just some thoughts and feelings I go through every blue moon. I mean at the end of the day I love this baby soooooooo much it's crazy. But I have my doubts. Am I the only one. ?
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I think the thought of motherhood can be daunting. I seem to be having more doubts and a harder time "connecting" this time compared to with my first. The worry you feel will never go away, year after year the worries will change but never go away. At times when it gets hard I've even asked myself "what have I done?" (In regards to becoming a mother). Then the guilt of those thoughts would torment me. But I also have days where I couldn't and wouldn't want to imagine my life without my daughter or the child on the way. Try not to feel guilty about those thoughts, because all it means is that you want the best for your child.
With my daughter I broke down minutes before we were supposed to leave to check in to the hospital. I started crying and telling my husband what if I can't do this and what if I fail at being a good Mommy.
He told me it was too late to back out. Everything would be fine and I would be a great Mom.
I think it's normal to be scared with your first.
I doubt you're the only one that feels this way. I think it's normal to feel this way, especially if it's your first or if you're in a situation in which you have little or no support. Trust me, if God had blessed you with this baby, then it's definitely supposed to be. I'm sure you'll do great!
@army yea that's true. I worry so much cause I just want the best for him & @sweet thank you !! I'll give me all to be !!