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Am I the only one ?? Sometimes I get so unattached from this pregnancy. It never lasts long but sometimes I just wonder…

Am I the only one ??

Sometimes I get so unattached from this pregnancy. It never lasts long but sometimes I just wonder if this is how it's supposed to be, am I supposed to be a mom right now ? Am I supposed to have my baby now ? Will I be a good mom ? How will I provide for him ? How will I teach him ? Will he love me ? Will I love him ? I mean I do but idk. Those are just some thoughts and feelings I go through every blue moon. I mean at the end of the day I love this baby soooooooo much it's crazy. But I have my doubts. Am I the only one ?

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Completely normal feelings. I was 22 when I had my first boy. I didn't think about anything and went with whatever came my way. I had no worries. Now I'm 35 and pregnant with a baby girl and I worry too much. I think of everything. I am getting much better now that I only have 11 weeks left. I think once our babies are here all those feelings and emotions will subside:)

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Haha, I definitely wonder what I'll do if he's not as cute or funny as his brother. ;)

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^I'm the same as above! This is my second and I keep thinking I won't have enough love for this one lol. Or what if he comes out and is dull. Or not as cute as the first. It sounds awful, but it's true!

But, I've had one so I know that the second you lay eyes on that kid you are going to be so overwhelmed with emotion you'll look back and wonder what you were so worried about!

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Normal feelings!!

I remember not knowing how I was going to love my first when I was pregnant. I mean, I knew that I would, but I couldn't imagine just how much.

The point is, it's impossible to imagine what you don't know. Take it a day at a time, and you'll realize that your love for your child only grows!

I'm pregnant with my second and still wonder how I'm going to love both my sons the same!

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Am I the only one ?? Sometimes I get so unattached from this pregnancy. It never lasts long but sometimes I just wonder…

Am I the only one ?? Sometimes I get so unattached from this pregnancy. It never lasts long but sometimes I just wonder if this is how it's supposed to be, am I supposed to be a mom right now ? Am I supposed to have my baby now ? Will I be a good mom ? How will I provide for him ? How will I teach him ? Will he love me ? Will I love him ? I mean I do but idk. Those are just some thoughts and feelings I go through every blue moon. I mean at the end of the day I love this baby soooooooo much it's crazy. But I have my doubts. Am I the only one. ?

It's ok to say that pregnancy sucks. Because for some, it does. Not everyone has a pregnancy with no symptoms or…

It's ok to say that pregnancy sucks. Because for some, it does. Not everyone has a pregnancy with no symptoms or complications to complain about. If you admit it sucks, it doesn't mean you're not greatful or don't love your baby. It just means you're being honest. The same with motherhood. That sucks sometimes too. That doesn't mean you don't love your kids and don't do your best to give them the world. I know it's old but it popped up in a snapchat story about how people (Especially other moms) bashed Kim Kardashian for being honest about her pregnancy. I appreciate her honesty and not sugar coating everything to seem perfect.