Found out gender I am having my 4 th healthy baby boy...... I know I was hoping for a girl but why do I feel absolutely…

I know how u felt I this is my 5th baby but number 4 I wanted a girl so bad as I already had 3 boys and nope got another boy so I have 3 boys I am currently having my girl this time but I still find it so hard to get extols about her invase she is really a boy as I’m so used to them

Agreed it’s definitely super hard:( and disappointing. I love all my kids nomatter what but yes like u all say it’s very very hard for now

Hey sweet I totally get where your coming from. 4th baby for me and also 4th boy. I’ve driven myself nuts over my scans in desperate hope for a girl but it’s just not going to ever happen ??? I love my boys so much but a little girl would have been nice as a final baby. This is my last so still finding it hard to come to terms that I’ll never get to experience that mother and daughter relationship but not only for me but my boys were so desperately hoping for a sister finally. I know my heart will completely melt once he’s in my arms but it’s very hard for now.

I'm sorry, I know exactly how you feel. I have 2 healthy boys and all I ever wanted was a girl. We finally got pregnant and this will be the last baby because I'm 38 now and 39 when the baby will be born. Testing came back, its another boy. I'm crushed and cry all the time. I can't seem to get excited at all. gender disappointment is a real thing and it's hard for others to realize how hurt you are. again I'm so sorry, hugs ❣

I totally understand. I have a 5 yo daughter, and ever since I was pregnant with her, I’ve always dreamed of having all girls. Probably because I grew up with no sisters and only brothers, I wanted them to have a bond I never had. At 13 weeks, ultrasound tech guessed girl. My heart was so happy to hear that but I knew it was just a guess and that it could change. At 17 weeks, it was confirmed a boy. My heart fell to stomach, and I couldn’t help but feel disappointed and feeling guilty about feeling disappointed. But as weeks go by, I’m feeling more and more excited to just have another baby. It will get better!

Thanks for the support .

I understand completely. We are pregnant with our fourth girl, no boys. My heart was crushed realizing I wasn’t getting a momma’s boy. But our daughters are great and I know she will fit right in. It’s getting easier as the weeks go on and I’m starting to feel her little kicks.

It will be ok mama take some time trust me after I lost my last baby I kept wondering what he or she was and what they would look like and all now God blessed me with my rainbow baby and it was hard but now I can't wait to meet him

That's is exactly what it feels like :( that my daughter died :(

I felt the same this is my 4th pregnancy my second boy i really wanted a girl cause my daughter is the only girl out of 6 grandchildren so when they told me it's a boy I wanted to cry but I just stayed quiet i lost my last baby way to early so it makes me wonder if that baby was a girl or a boy but now I have 1 daughter a 2 son's and this little boy has grown on me with felling his movements and all he is one cute little boy

Gender disappointment is so so real!! Let yourself mourn the little girl you didn't get, and then use the rest od your pregnancy to bond with your little boy.

We have 2 boys, and were not going to wait til birth this time to find out gender, purely based on the fact that if this were boy #3 i would need time to mourn the little girl i would never have, and to bond with third boy. We ended up getting our girl, but were so ready for third boy, had a name picked and everything, i was sure hubby only made boys.

Wishing you all the best with your little man

I cried a bit finding out we were having girl #3 and I told my husband it was because I was so excited to finally see the baby lol still a little upset because I really really wanted a son. Oh well ??‍♀️ hormones right?

This makes me feel a little better. I still can't walk past girly clothes and not tear ? up. And on top of it my best friend is having her daughter today ! I was so hoping we would both have girls and they would have the friendship her and I had as little kids :( . Everything happens for a reason I guess

Hang in there mommas. It is tough when you have all of one gender and have your heart set on another. My husband was really wanting a boy but we are having our 3rd girl. We talk about having another, but we know that it will be a girl lol.

We just confirmed we are having our fourth boy as well and I actually cried. My husband and I were longing for a little girl especially since we lost our little girl at 23 weeks gestation.

Although I'm not in the same situation I have 1 of each ..I felt the same feeling. I REALLY wanted another boy but I'm having a girl. Deep down I was so upset more than I let on but now I'm getting excited. I'm starting to feel her move! Me & my daughter bought her some clothes the other day that were soo cute! I hope you start to feel better ?

Thanks I'm in complete tears hoping it gets better I feel like I'm being selfish but I can't help it ?

Gender disappointment is tough. It'll get better with time hun, it's totally normal to feel this way when you want a specific sex, I was crushed too. But now I am so excited to meet my baby it took me about a week to get used to the idea ?