Separation I'm possibly about to be a single mommy of 4 my SO is sending someone idk who videos of himself doing u know…

It's so disgusting I like wanna punch ? him in the face grrrrrrr so horrible and disrespectful I can't stop thinking about it either

I’m so sorry, I’m going through something similar. This will also be my 4th baby and caught him sexting SEVERAL women ??‍♀️ and not to sound mean but they are all super ugly and ghetto looking. When I confronted him he tried to say it was my fault because I “make him feel unwanted” which is a cowardly excuse. I want to try to work things out because I know it never went anywhere besides texting but I can’t stop thinking about it. I don’t even want to look at him. I also don’t want this baby born into a broken home but it feels like I don’t even know how to work this out. It’s so disappointing let alone humiliating ???‍♀️

Thank you ladies he is clinging on and saying he will make any changes I need I just have doubts about it... most likely still moving forward with my decision.

I'm sorry you are going through this but you can't stay with someone who will treat you that way. Please don't feel you will be alone forever. I left my ex after 7 years, he cheated and fathered another child while I was having miscarriage after miscarriage. Now I have a wonderful husband and am happier than ever. It does get better!

Don’t feel like that. There are (unfortunately) a lot of people who get thrust into these positions from betrayals and partners who break their trust. My uncle has kids from

Two seperate marriages but has just settled down and moved in with a lovely lady who has also been through the same with her ex husband.

You will find something so much better one day with someone else. Until then you have to mend and build your self esteem back up that low lives like him beat out of you!

You’re right, you DO NOT deserve this, however you aren’t going to be ‘alone forever’

I even know of a 20yo friend that’s just past his 3rd anniversary with his girlfriend who has two kids to other fathers. He adores her & the kids. There are good guys out there. The mature ones don’t care what your position is, they just need to like you for you & if they do they’ll take your children on as their own & love them just as much?

My own DF now has two dads because of this. Loves his bio dad & step dad equally. They both raised him.

Good luck hun.. don’t let scum bags drag you down. If he’s doing this crap he isn’t worth your tears, no matter how long it’s been or how many children you share. He’s just not worth the heart ache xx

That's my fear is that now I will be alone forever ?I don't deserve to be treated this way . I have never be a dishonest person or say horrible mean hurtful things ?why do I end up with these losers ...

So so sorry. It will be tremendously hard but you cannot stay with someone who is disrespecting you like this and won’t even own up to it... it’s gunna be so hard but they’ll be someone better for you in your future who adores & loves you like you should be loved.

Prayers

Praying for you sweetie. I’m so so sorry

And my kids will be sooo confused.... can't let this happen tho