:/ Not sure how I feel
So yesterday we go and see my bf's mom. She brings up a conversation about babies and how his brother announced that they will be trying to get pregnant in December. She doesn't know we are pregnant but i did recently lost a baby at 26weeks in May. My bf's sister and I were pregnant at the same time and she is constantly talking about that baby too which she had a couple weeks after I lost mine. Maybe i am being insensitive cause of my loose. But why would she have to announce that there trying in December?!? I wanted to scream well I am almost 10 weeks pregnant! I now feel like i wanna keep my baby a secret as long as possible. I just feel better no one knowing. Ahh maybe i am being stupid!
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I understand you're negative thoughts toward her. I was that way when a friend of mine got pregnant right away after I had been trying for two years. I think when you go through a struggle to conceive, you feel differently about pregnancy in general.
And seriously, why do people need to announce that they are going to start trying? I get it, they're excited, but it makes for some awkward moments.
It's not that i am upset that there trying in December. I am just like maybe we should be celebrating when we know there is a baby. I had some ill thoughts hoping it doesn't come easy for her.... but i take that back cause i know that's a horrible thought.
I had the same situation. I had a mc last year and we have been trying forever it seems and I'm am going to be 9w tmrw. I didn't want to tell a single soul jus because I don't want to jinx anything. But also want to tell the world. And find out a close friend got pregnant right after knowing my situation and seemed to throw it in my face. Very irritating.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
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I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
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Thanks lol i never felt the need to announce trying either. I would then feel pressure if it wasn't happening right away.