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Allie M
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:/ Not sure how I feel So yesterday we go and see my bf's mom. She brings up a conversation about babies and how his…

:/ Not sure how I feel

So yesterday we go and see my bf's mom. She brings up a conversation about babies and how his brother announced that they will be trying to get pregnant in December. She doesn't know we are pregnant but i did recently lost a baby at 26weeks in May. My bf's sister and I were pregnant at the same time and she is constantly talking about that baby too which she had a couple weeks after I lost mine. Maybe i am being insensitive cause of my loose. But why would she have to announce that there trying in December?!? I wanted to scream well I am almost 10 weeks pregnant! I now feel like i wanna keep my baby a secret as long as possible. I just feel better no one knowing. Ahh maybe i am being stupid!

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allieboymom4

Allie MМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Thanks lol i never felt the need to announce trying either. I would then feel pressure if it wasn't happening right away.

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I understand you're negative thoughts toward her. I was that way when a friend of mine got pregnant right away after I had been trying for two years. I think when you go through a struggle to conceive, you feel differently about pregnancy in general.

And seriously, why do people need to announce that they are going to start trying? I get it, they're excited, but it makes for some awkward moments.

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allieboymom4

Allie MМама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It's not that i am upset that there trying in December. I am just like maybe we should be celebrating when we know there is a baby. I had some ill thoughts hoping it doesn't come easy for her.... but i take that back cause i know that's a horrible thought.

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I had the same situation. I had a mc last year and we have been trying forever it seems and I'm am going to be 9w tmrw. I didn't want to tell a single soul jus because I don't want to jinx anything. But also want to tell the world. And find out a close friend got pregnant right after knowing my situation and seemed to throw it in my face. Very irritating.

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Your not being stupid hun you just need to go with your gut feeling and what feels right for you and if you want to say now then let it happen if not don't worry do it when you feel comfortable. Only you can decide xx

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