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Newlyironman
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would you do it?? Okay, so obviously hypothetical....

would you do it??

Okay, so obviously hypothetical....

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deleted-user

Um, no. I'm not losing the memory of my wedding or my son being born. I don't want to lose the memory of my miscarriage either. Because even though it was arguably the worst moment of my life, my baby mattered though I didn't get to hold them.

Our experiences make us who we are, why would you change that? They give us tools to help others who have gone through the same thing or to simply make someone's day a bit brighter.

deleted-user

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Yes

deleted-user

deleted-user

My best memory is the day my son was born! I couldn't forget that! It's the only thing that I can look back on and it helps me keep going

deleted-user

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I don't know I would erase it but then I never would of been with my now husband. Who knows if I would of stay with my ex who is horrible. This is hard.

deleted-user

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No I'd lose the memory of my son being born. My worst memories aren't that bad.

deleted-user

deleted-user

Absolutely not!

deleted-user

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Never. I would say my worse memory was the day my mom and my brother showed up on my doorstep to tell me my dad died. If I lost that memory I wouldn't know he was gone and would have to keep getting reminded which would feel like losing him all over again

deleted-user

deleted-user

That is tempting... but I just couldn't choose to lose the memory of the first time I held my son even if I'd love to lose a few unpleasant memories.

deleted-user

deleted-user

Nope.

deleted-user

deleted-user

No, experiences & memories make us who we are.

deleted-user

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Nope! I treasure my memories. I have gone through so much pain but it was worth it because I am so much stronger now.

deleted-user

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No. My worst is one that no parent should ever have to remember, but erasing the memory also erases my last moments by ds's side. I also have too many good memories to consider one of them my best.

deleted-user

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Una...i thought Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind as well. Love that movie.

deleted-user

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Nope, I don't even know what my "best memories" are... but I know that my worst memories have made me who I am. I don't ever want to forget the way life could have turned out/didn't turn out

deleted-user

deleted-user

No my worst memories aren't worth my best

deleted-user

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I'd be super- tempted to, but I don't like that trade- off, so I'd probably pass.

deleted-user

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I'll pass on that and just use the memories I have, both good and bad to learn and develop from ?✌️

Way to Sci-Fi for me?

deleted-user

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Yes, I would. I'd only have to do it once because this one is hard to live with.

deleted-user

deleted-user

No.

deleted-user

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On a side note the idea intrigued me ever since I saw eternal sunshine of the spotless mind.

deleted-user

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While I would love to not have PTSD anymore, I also wouldn't trade my best memories for anything.

deleted-user

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Nope. The bad memories keep me humble and honest with myself and the good memories remind me of why I am who I am. I wouldn't want to try and create a new me without the hurt or the joy those memories bring.

deleted-user

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Nope, they are a part of me and they created the person I am today

deleted-user

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My best memory came about due to where my life turned after my worst memory so no. They all made me who I am today and I like who that person is.

deleted-user

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No I'm fortunate enough not to have any memories that terrible that I'd want to get rid of.

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My worst memory is because of my best memory.

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No

deleted-user

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No absolutely not. I'd risk losing precious childhood memories of my late daddy.

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I don't know how to quantify my worst memory or beat memory. I mean, that could cure my PTSD, so maybe?

deleted-user

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No I wouldn't My memories good or bad, make me who I am.