announcing has me paranoid.

Same here, I had a miscarriage before this pregnancy and I just had this feeling that if we announce than this baby will be taken from us too. My DH keeps me grounded when I start thinking that way with his, "oh stop it, you know that's not how it works" attitude. We announced at thanksgiving and announced the gender on Christmas. I'm still terrified something is gonna happen but I'll be 21 weeks on Saturday. We've come this far, in trying to live everyday thankful for being pregnant and focusing on that every time my mind wanders to a negative thought.

Omg same thing happened to me. I was so nervous letting out the secret and it felt like telling others might jinx it. Once I told everyone it was just pure relief. I was like oh ok I got this. Bite the bullet and let others share in your happiness! ?

Same happened to me ? MIL decided to tell the entire family and for two days straight I was really sick. I was so paranoid. I'm very private and didn't want to tell anyone because I always feel negative energy from some of his family

Congrats newlyironman!!! Randomly found a comment of yours and wanted to check up on you. Happy to hear you're pregnant :)

38 weeks and didn't announce yet ?

We announced a little while ago but I dealt with the same thing as soon as we did. Was so excited, not worried, and then I got all paranoid.

I was paranoid my whole pregnancy lol

Im 19 weeks and also just announced and have been having the same anxiety about something happening now. I guess there will always be that worry, especially if you've experienced miscarriages before :/