where do you fall? I've seen a lot of people listing off the order of what's important to them.

I'm surprised at how many people put their kids above their spouse.

God

Husband

Kids

Me

Everyone else.

Allah

Husband

Children

Me

Everything else

@redcorset oh my gosh that is so cute, cats then you? You made me giggle {=>__

Its my kids, the cats then me.

No other way about it.

I get me time after the kids are asleep and thats ok by me. I dont require much.

Gimme a shower, cookies and a show in my bed and im good! Lol

God

Daughter

Me

My so

Other family

Amen, lillass. ??

My dog, booze, then chocolate.

My first is my children. They didn't ask to be here so I owe it to them to put them above all else.

My husband is next. He's my best friend and, besides my kids, the reason I wake up every day.

My animals are next. They love me and I love them. I'm a good fur baby mamma. Lol.

After all that is my home and my plants. It's like a jungle in my house. I have over 30 plants. And that's just inside. I have a garden outside as well.

My son

Me

My husband

My immediate family

My best friend

Extended family

I look at it this way: who am I willing to die for? Anybody that goes on that list, is above me. My son is the only person in which I would sacrifice myself for so he could live.

My list isn't really a list, it has God at the top then everyone else, including me, below it. Here's my reasoning. If I am following God in every aspect, then my family will be happy. I have had times where God wasn't first and it lead to an unbalance in my life.

Right now i am spending a lot of time and effort on myself. I am pregnant with number one, and want to be the best parent I can. To achieve this I am not working, which is fine with my husband, and using that free time to improve myself. I am going to counseling, doctors appointments I had put off for years, and making our house more of a home than we ever thought possible. It has made our marriage stronger because I am healthier in every way. Now I don't think he would like it if I went to the mall constantly and spent tons of money.

Kids and husband are tied. I can't decide who is above the other. I take care of and make time for all of them equally. at least I try to.

Me. I have to force myself to make time for myself. Or SO will make me. I was terrible at it at first, but I'm getting better. It's important to care for yourself too, which is why I express that to new moms.

Everyone else

God

Husband

Kids

Me

Rest of family

God

Husband

Kids

Me

Everything else

God

Kids

Me

Husband

My son, SO, myself, them family (my side)

My boys

Me

Dh

House

Pets

Cars

Even when my kids are 18 I will always be their mom. I don't stop being a parent when they move out. This doesn't mean I neglect my marriage. My husband is still very important. I just feel my children always have the biggest part of my heart.

Myself

My husband

My children

My pets

My immediate family

Everything else

it's my son. And then me and df.

Obviously it's important for me to be healthy and happy to be a good mom and partner but I wouldn't be happy if that came at the risk of my child.. They always come first.

Df step sister was leaving her few month old baby and his toddler brother overnight to go out to bars with her new bf because she needed to keep her sanity.. She only had hem every other weekend already so I'll be miss judgypants and say that's a horrible priority. I understand u need some time away, but I see no reason to leave a tiny baby overnight baring a medical emergency.

Children always first.

Everything else is equal.

God, husband, children, myself.

My husband and children

Me

Other family

Friends

The world at large

There was a time when I would have been at the bottom of the list, but my husband has spent many years showing me my worth and the necessity of caring for myself in order to care for others.

On my list, I am with God. My relationship with God I am also working on myself, if that makes sense

In a general thing I would say:

Me

My SO

My son

My family

My career

My friends

Everything else

Now this isn't the order of who I would save in a fire, or feed first. This is just a general, if I'm not taking care of myself, I'm not a good partner/mother/employee/friend. If my SO and I don't have a good relationship, then we can't parent together as affectively, and there will be nothing left when the kid(s) leave the home and start their own family. Without my career, I couldn't support my family, and then as much as I love my friends, I don't feel I need them as much as the above.

I'm going to go with equality as my answer. Everyone is as important as everyone else. That's the only way it makes sense to me. I can't understand saying that my husband or kids are more important than myself. We are all in this together.

It is definitely family and friends first, everything else in life is less important than the people I love, work, hobbies, etc.

God

My husband, children and myself (we are all one unit)

Our animals

Work/our farm