Arianna C
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Arianna C

Friend doesn't like that we're both pregnant

So a good friend of mines younger sister is pregnant for the first time, with a boy, due around the same time as me. I've known her for many years and I consider her a friend. When I found out we were both ftms having boys at the same time I was excited for her. I've tried reaching out via social media, commenting and liking her posts but she has never responded back which is no big deal BUT when her sister (my close friend) and I were talking she told me that her pregnant sister was upset that I kept trying to "share our pregnancy" because she is a first time mom and this is really important to her and I was stealing her thunder whenever I post that I'm excited we will be moms together.

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I was the same as your friend when I found out my sister-in-law was pregnant at the same time as me. This is my first pregnancy and her 2nd, and for some (stupid) reason I was upset thinking she was going to rain on my parade, and that it would make my pregnancy ‘less special’. I was sad thinking I’d have to share the limelight. Now, I realise my attitude ruined our friendship, and I’m stuck having this baby without any friend support. She cut ties which I completely understand, and now I’m lonely. Your friend will soon realise she has made a big mistake. I’d give anything to have a friend to share our pregnancies together.

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That’s all her. I would love for someone else I knew to be prego with me and to go through this stuff. Right now all my friends are still doing the outings and having the bar meet ups after work or taking girl trips. I would love to do those things with a prego friend but hey enjoying doing it with hubby. She’ll be ok. Give them the space they are asking for and enjoy ur life and your pregnancy.

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You don’t need that type of friend. Backing off is best.

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Shes being to sensitive in mh opinion

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