Engaged and confused Ladies how did you feel before you got married to your spouses? I am sort of…
Engaged and confused
Ladies how did you feel before you got married to your spouses? I am sort of engaged, yeah I know that doesn't make sense. We were supposed to get married at the courthouse in November 30th (we met the same day back in 2012) but it's coming too fast so we're moving it. But we just aren't doing well. Well enough to know that we're happily engaged. We have lots of moments of quiet time (on both of our parts) and he's ALWAYS getting mad and everything is basically my fault. And we barely talk about us getting married. Now everything isn't bad. We do have our good moments but its the bad moments that have me worried. I even suggested premarital counseling but he doesn't want to do that until we talk amongst ourselves. But if we aren't talking, then how are we going to fix our problems??? I'm so stressed but I want is to work....
Tex·
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@weldstep we talk, but the problem is when one of us get mad or upset, then we both shut down and it's very frustrating bc it seems like no matter what, I'm always the one who has to get us talking again.
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The day you met is the day u were going to get married?....besides that point. When your body and soul give u that side don't push away that gut feeling it's there as a protection. Marriage is hardwork, but if he get mad and shut down. There is something he is suppressing, and a marriage is went he won't hide it. Good luck.
Tex·
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@mrslily I'm sorry for the confusion. We met November 30th of 2012 and we were going to get married November30th of this year. But yea you are right. I don't know exactly what he's suppressing but it's not helping either of us. I just hope we can work things out
deleted-user·
Maybe it would be best if you both get mad and not talk to both write down your feelings. Sometimes I do that so I can think out what im saying. Relationships are never perfect .. there is good and bad. Good luck!
Tex·
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Thank you lukin. I may try that