That’s really rude! Even if baby wasn’t planned, everyone should be congratulating you and wishing you well. Gosh, that’s rude. Hope you’re enjoying your fabulous third pregnancy xxx

I had a boy first and then a girl. I got that with #3 all the time! This is #4 and now everyone says, “You haven’t figured out what causes that yet?” People are jerks.

"Yes we planned to bone every Tuesday at 924pm" any other intrusive questions? ???

Same Damn thing Here

We have a 9-year old boy and 5-year old girl. We ttc for 2 years for this one.

The worst I find is family telling people it was an accident. ???

Ugh this why we haven't announced yet. We got married a month ago and we know everyone is going to ask if that's why we eloped. Like no, we just wanted to save money. It's so frustrating when people are nosey!

Haha I'm sure we're in for that too, in a few weeks - have a boy and girl too! Everyone knows I have wanted a third, but people have no tact!

A bunch of people have asked me that too. This is our third. It’s very annoying because whether it was planned or not..it’s happening!! A sweet baby is coming!

I hate it. My first wasn't planned but this second one was and we got pregnant the first month of trying. We got married a month later as it was our anniversary date (we planned a simple courthouse wedding.) I know it seems like a shotgun wedding but if that were the case wouldn't I have gotten married a long time ago being my first is already 1. Sorry for the rent but I get it. People are rude.

I'm one of those that will ask close friend this question. My first 3 were planned, so the questions never bothered me. We have our first "oops" and I'm pretty sure no one will ask this time ? I don't think people ask to be tacky, just trying to be conversational and be interested in your pregnancy.

I have a boy and girl and ready for that question I know it’s coming because getting pregnant I had people saying I don’t need more kids since I have one of each. Like anybody pays for our bills. I wish I had the guts to say “no it was an accident I was walking down the street and tripped on “it”” LOL

SERIOUSLY!! This is my third as well, I have gotten the SAME response! I've only told a handful of people. I dread telling everyone else because I'll get that same question. It just seems so rude! I'd never think of asking that question.

Ive been asked too. Some people are just trying to think of something to say. Ours were all planned. Very much anticipated. We got pregnant within days of my hubby coming back from deployment and ive made that very clear ? partly from fear though that someone will think it happened beforehand (even though id never cheat). I think people should express their emotions based on what the couple expresses- then they cant be wrong haha.

We've gotten asked the same question by everyone also. We too have a boy and a girl and they are very close in age as this baby will be also so everyone just assumes its an "oops." Very much planned out with each one of our children.

Yes!!! We have a 3 1/2 year old girl and a 9 month boy. This baby is planned and a blessing! We couldn’t be happier. We are announcing next week and I’m preparing for this and other reactions. My mil already made comments that getting pregnant is the last thing we need right now... ??‍♀️???‍♀️

I feel the same way this is my 4 th baby I have all boys and I'm hoping for a baby ?? girl ?? ppl are so judgmental like as if they have the right to tell you how many kids to have it's like really screw off . That's why I don't tell everyone I'm pregnant unless I know there is support not everyone has happy vibes for you . Only accept the positive we have the right to be happy mommies

I’m super worried about people thinking or asking me that too! Especially since this is a “Harvey” baby and we already have one of each. ? I feel ya girl!

Yes it was planned, it was Gods plan. #ShutEmDown ?

I've been asked that a few times lol my one male cousin asked me that and I just said well no not exactly and his response was well what do u expect when your doing the hanky panky lmao I was so awkwardly embarrassed ??

Yah I hate that question too, none of your business?

I have two girls and I always get the statement “oh hopefully you get a boy” sorry I love my girls and I’d love to have another, all I want is a healthy baby

Yea I wouldn't ask that, that's information people could say for themselves or not say at all lol.

Shake it off.

I'm so guilty of this but the only reason I would ask is because my first was totally a surprise. I know better now lol

Yea my friends and family asked me to lol but idk this baby was planned my others weren’t thou ??