Do you use babysitters?
I personally used to babysit all the time, from 11 or 12 all through my teens... No way would I leave my 10 month old dd with a 12 year old! But curious as to who has/does use teen babysitters & what your experience has been.
I am very lucky and have amazing neighbours who have an 18yo daughter who is great with kids. She has babysat for us a few times since she was 17. For over night stays we drive the hour south to drop her off at her grandparents.
I know that if i ever get in a pickle though that i can ask next door and they'll do everything possible to help out.
I worked at a child care centre. I got quite close to a junior there, she was 15 when my son was born and mature beyond her years. At 1st I had no dramas leaving my DS with her for a few hours, for appointments or 4 sleep. Now she is so close my son calls her Aunty and my OH refers to her as another little sister. She is now 16 and my DS is 18 months and she has him over night and I know I don't need to worry, she does live with her grandparents if she needs help but she is very capable. I would say go more on the maturity and vibe u get then a number age!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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We use a girl (well she's a lady really) who was my eldest day care carer 8 years ago. She has since become a primary school teacher and is fantastic with kids.
Babysitters are expensive and charge in excess of $20 per hour these days - which I realise isn't a huge hourly rate but when you add 4 or so hours of babysitter fees to the cost of a night out it gets expensive.
Family are a great option if you have them close by.