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sooo i need to vent. i'm leaving tomorrow night for madinah for about 9 or 10 days and then stay in makkah until…

sooo

i need to vent. i'm leaving tomorrow night for madinah for about 9 or 10 days and then stay in makkah until september, after hajj is over. i'll be gone for 46 days total. i cant stop crying right now, i've never left my dd at all and now i'm leaving her for so long, i dont even know how to sleep without her close to me ? i'll know i'll survive and she will too but this whole thing, it's just so sad right now, it's overwhelming for me. i hope she doesnt forget me when i get back. my sil said from experience, there'll be an overwhelming feeling of missing my child, probably during middle to the end of the trip, it's gonna be a challenge for me. i'll probably just need to busy myself for distraction. other people makes the same sacrifices as well, right? i'm trying to not think about it too much but it's hard not too lol. if you're still reading, thanks ? i'm asking if you can make dua for my little girl, that she'll be okay and that Allah protect her always. jazakallah khair.

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I'm going for hajj too alhamdulilah and really struggling with leaving my girls for so long

I don't have any advice sorry but may Allah make it easy for u (and I lol) ameen

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Salaamalaikum sister! May allah swt make it easy for you and your DD, give you lots of sabr. Alhamdullilah you are so lucky! I am due August 10 so inshallah keep me in your duas, please make dua for me while you are there if you remember ! May Allah accept your hajj and bring you back safe and sound to your family ameen!

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Haha I won't disappear Either.. although having a newborn and a toddler may make me want to lock myself away in a dark cupboard somewhere haha. Xx

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Awwww I can't wait to show her to you inshaAllah!?I wont disappear off snapchat don't worry, requires less effort then these forums do!?

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mugglemama

mugglemamaМама дочки (1 год)

@smm yes the sim card, that's the plan inshallah. thank you sis!

@umtariq time flies! i still remember you and smm announced your pregnancy and now you're almost at the end! can't wait to see your babies ? don't totally disappear after you gave birth, okay? lol

jazakallah khair ❤️

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I can't believe you're going tomorrow inshaAllah, wow the time flew so fast!?I ask Allah to keep you safe and accept your Hajj! And to keep your daughter safe and happy too?

I'm sure it's hard to be away from your daughter, but she's in good hands! She will be fine inshaAllah and Allah will give you the strength to be patient and strong?I'm sooo sooo happy and excited for you! And I'll definitely keep you updated about my baby on snapchat inshaAllah!?

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Salaam sis. I pray u have a safe and blessed journey. Please keep us in ur Duas ❤️

I ask Allah swt to make it easy on u, and ease the pain of missing ur little girl. May all ur sacrifices be rewarded.ameen

I'm sure ur baby will b fine, I can only imagine how ur feeling. Get a SIM card whilst ur out there so u have internet access whilst not in ur hotel, and FaceTime/Skype as much as u can.

Hajj is a massive spiritual journey, and I'm sure with all the duas u will be makin you, Allah swt will give us sabr and get u through. Xx

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