My mom is a literal ice queen known for freezing people out at family events so I have learned from her ?

I work with somebody I can't stand. Told the harassment was a personal problem. So I tell him to f*ck off and leave me alone anytime he opens his mouth.

Put on my b**** face and hope they don't talk to me. ?

Yeah, she's a batch! I don't speak to her but like I said I'm civil. I'd rather my kids see that. She doesn't like me bc of a stupid remark I made before she was pregnant. I said to my nephew that my kids will really love him bc he was so good with all the kids. She caught a damn attitude and was like "well he'll love our kids more!!" Like duh! I was kinda shocked but not really. Then she wanted me to have an abortion bc the father had a kid from a previous relationship. Like what is wrong with you. Then all the stuff she said about my son. Then I had dd1 at 31 weeks. We both almost died and I spent 8 days in the hospital. My dd spent 33. She even went as far as to tell me that I should have had her birth. Well first off I would have loved to go full term! I would have loved to bring my dd home with me and not spending the first month of her life in the hospital! She said it was so hard... yes birth is hard no matter what but you were able to choose a C-section. You didn't need one. Mine wasn't a choice and I felt everything! From the first cut until they stitched me up. Ugh sorry I could go on forever with this girl!

urgh i'll probably do like yaya too but it's really irritating talking to someone i don't like. i wanna ignore but it feels like i can't, probably because of my culture urgh.

@chantilly, if someone said something like that to me, i'll never speak to them again and avoid to be in even the same place with them. accusing you to kill your own son, that's just horrible.

I'm civil bc that's what my dad would have wanted me to be. But I have a twitch anytime they open their mouth. Plus the chick I don't like really posted on fb I killed my son and then made up a pregnancy she supposedly had and she supposedly lost. But like three different ways she lost the baby. She miscarried this baby at 6 months then she lost the baby to sids when the baby was 6 months and had not one single picture in the whole 6 months..like she said she just didn't take any at all!? Then she didn't know she was even pregnant and had a stillborn. All of this came out after I lost my son and had a ton of support from my family. She wasn't the spotlight anymore and now most of the family don't like her bc she's a hot mess!!!

Interact with others

I drink ?

I'm polite and I also do my best to limit contact.

I act like my sisters soon to be husband isn't there. I completely ignore him. I have to drown out his bull s*** ting mouth or I eye roll the whole time. I really avoid being in a room with him because I'm bound to tell him what I really think of him.

I just go to the event be loud and happy like usual but COMPLETELY act like the person is not there. If the try to me in continue to ignore them ...

Also, find someone you do like and spend the time talking to them, if you can.

I can't stand DH's aunty (she did something really horrible and unforgivable) and she's alwayz at xmas, weddings etc. I literally ignore her. She once came up and said hello and I turned and walked away. If it was someone I simply disliked, but they werent aware, I'd be nice and keep chit chat short if they are unavoidable.

Look past them and keep it pushing and I'm the type to not go to said event because I would rather it cause drama (if it's on that level) at someone else's event.

Ignore them