how old?
just for fun, how old were you when you started to learn to fast for the first time?
@raheemah wow you teach them very early, that's amazing mashallah. how many hours do they have to fast?
Started practicing at 8-9 years old and used to do half days. Sometimes full days when I was 9. I started at 10 years old :)
I'll probably start earlier for my kids inshaAllah because I know my siblings and I all wanted to start earlier, so I would let them practice half a day when they want to.
I think by 10 (if they're healthy and strong) they have to fast though, to get into the habit, just like praying.
I teach my children pretty young around 3 or 4. They start off half a day once a week. By 5 full days twice a week. 6 yrs old fast 5 days of each week. 7 the full week, but I will skip a week..... So every other week. By 8 or 9 my children can fast the whole Ramadan. We also fast each month during the year. Which helps also. My older children (ages 11,10, and 8) all fast the full month. This year will be my 11 yrs old son, 4th full fast of Ramadan.
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