"fat" comments
Ok so I've noticed alot of you guys get offended when people tell you that you look big or whatever. It doesn't bother me at all. We're pregnant. Of course people are gunna say you look big or you look like you're gunna pop. I really doubt they mean it to hurt our feelings. And anyway it's the truth! We're big! When people say stuff like that it like really doesn't bother me at all. I don't know maybe it's just me
Im sorry, I dont care who says it, even my husband will not call me fat. He can call me big, but not fat. You cant tell the amount of weight Ive gained from looking, but it is outrageous and Im self conscious. Im always worried my body will never return. The only comment anyone needs to say about my appearance is, 'Youre so beautiful!!' And now I know that as well for future pregos I encounter.
my husband calls me chubby after he asks what I've eaten that day, but his bestfriend pisses me off when he calls me fat. he actually uses the word fat. ugh! But I love the comments a customer says. he either says, the watermelon seeds are terrible huh....or...hello, super pregnant. :-)
It just depends on who says what. My husband calls me a fatty when I eat a cupcake and then he giggles. It's an endearing term with me and him. I love it. My mom says I'm huge and can't wait to hold her chubby grand baby. Also something I love. But other times it just hits me wrong. It's situational.
This girl in which I can't stand bc she is completely obnoxious said something out of the blue to me. She asked me if they needed to save me two seats at the table n for some reason thought it was funny. If it were to have been my friend (although none of my friends talk like this to me) it would have been ok but when the girl doesn't know anything about me I have a problem w it. She is just a co worker that no one can tolerate n this was at work n completely inappropriate.
how many of you mommys still do your makeup even if you have a newborn or a baby? people who obviously hate me say that "nah you wont have time for crap" or "kiss all that goodbye" like really? sorry not sorry if you always look like crap & take out your anger on me..
I really want a diaper bag that doesn't look like a diaper bag if that makes sense. Something chic that doesn't say "LOOK THIS IS A DIAPER BAG!"
for me its who says it and when...my hubby said "I cant believe they are still weighing u in pounds" he was joking and i thought it was funny too, however my mother asked how much i gain and gasped, I was PISSED and pissed for a long time too! Im in the military and the guys teese me all the time but thats just how we are to each other...if they gave me a compliment it would be weird!