Forgot to add. It was actually the cord that wrapped around his neck that killed him. I also got to see him and he's soooo precious, god really took a beautiful baby boy up to him to watch over us
Thank you ladies. All the replies to my post are really appreciated. The hospital however took pics, hand and footprints of him and provided them to both my sister and her df. I'm taking it really hard but I'm trying to be strong for my baby on the way, my son, sister and family. We'll get thru it together.
Thanks again for all the replies at this time.
If there's still time try and get in contact with now I lay me down to sleep. It's a non profit that will send a photographer to capture the baby. I know for some women that's a horrible thought but I lost my niece a month before she was due and my BFF talks about how those pictures are the only thing she clings to on days that its hard to get out of bed or just hard to go through her day. My prayers are with your sister and family
Check out or have her Check out www.angelkisses.org They are a wonderful resource of pregnancy loss resources. Including memorial pictures, which are usually done free by volunteers you just need to find one in your area. This is one of the hardest things someone will ever go through, support is a must. And don't be offended if she has a hard time being around you or your baby when they're born. I had a super hard time around my pregnant friends and family after our Angel was born. And seek support for yourself also. Your whole family will need to grieve this terrible loss. And pass on that God is a big boy, and he can handle it if your mad at him. That was one of the best things Someone told me after our loss. Praying for you and your family. May you all find comfort and peace in time. *hugs*
Thanks ladies. I got to find out that since he was so chunky he had no room. So he pooped and inhaled and went into distress. She's about 8cm now. So almost time to push him out.
I don't know how I'm going to manage, right now I'm a nervous wreck.
I am so sorry. I dont know what I would do if I lost my unborn, especially being so far! I had a mc at 17 weeks a few years back, it was the hardest thing to do since I knew it was a girl and had a name picked out. The day I had my delivery with her is tomorrow, which will make it 4 years.
Your sister is in my prayers. God bless you all. She will make it through and will be blessed again.
I wish I didnt see this post...I know exactly how she feels. Last year same thing happened to me...and it also was a Sunday I last felt him and i went to doctor Monday...only we did have a heartbeat but U/S showed no movements..so I guess bcus of the heartbeat they rushed me to have a C section to see if they can save him but nope he was beain dead...basically born sleeping so I know exactly how she feels being so close to having bby. I was in my 8th month. Sooo sad for her. Lord I pray for you guys. This has really hit home for me...Your family will definately be in my prayers.
Thanks poochiepooh all the prayer and thoughts are really helping. Didn't expect so many ppl to actually care to reply much less have me and my family in their prayers. Thanks everyone