really upset
So I had my weekly appointment with the same batch who made me feel horrible about my weight and said if we're to gain more, I'll have a c-section. Well she didnt bring up weight today. She did the cervix check, was rude the whole time, and made me feel like poo. She said if I couldn't take getting my cervix checked, I'll need an epidural. Well for one, you made me bleed and two, you were really rough. She told me I'd be spotting today. I even said before, I never wanted her again but they scheduled me with her without telling me.
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She had no right to do that to you.. She needs to be reported. The sweeps only work when both your body and baby are ready for labor.. Soo that being said if your baby or your body are not ready it wont work. My mom didnt want to be induced doctors tried 3 sweeps but nothing happend until 43 weeks and a few day.. (yes i know 43 weeks is alot she was due apr 16 and had my brother until may 9 soo yeah) and went into labor on her own. Lol
I would try to speak with someone higher up than the nurse. I'm a nurse and when people call complaining about one of my Doctors I can't really do much, and also the next appointment you make you need to clarify that you no longer want to see that doctor and explain why!
So sorry that she didn't explain anything to you!!! That's crazy my OBGYN made me sign a consent form when she was just checking me for a yeast infection. So your doctor is definitely making huge mistakes!!!!
@awesome. It's irregular but i do feel contractions. I've been in and out sleep since i got home around 12 . The on call nurse reported her for me. She put in two reports for her being disrespectful and stripping me without consent and another one from her for not letting her nor my actual doctor knowing so the nurse could have been there to explain it to me and asked if i wanted it. She's kinda new to being an OB doctor but doesn't give her the right to do something like that.
It depends on who does the cervical check, I started contractions when I was 35 weeks and went to the ER & that doc was awful rough and I bled bad. I was a fingertip dialated and closed back up within a week and was fine til my water broke at 38+6. It's normal to bleed some after a cervical check. Sorry OP, you shouldn't have a had to deal with all that.
Eta: are you contracting at all?
My doctor that I normally get doesn't hurt, just pressure. But she wiggled around, and stripped me. That was very uncomfortable and I can barely sit I can only lay down.
Thank you ladies. I have reported her in the office earlier, and I'll be reporting again when DF gets home. I had my dad drop me off at DFs due to our air conditioner being wacky lately, it needs to be recharged. He didn't want me getting overheated. I'm more upset about my sister not being here. But if he can wait a bit longer, I'll be happy. If he can't, it's fine.
Ugh I'm so sorry. It's not okay to do anything to anyone without permission. You and your child were essentially violated. She needs to be reported. When you go into labor don't let her deliver the baby. You tell them you won't have her do it. She's not able to be trusted. You need to trust the person bringing your baby into the world. You need to know that they'll listen to you and keep you informed on everything hat is going on. I'm praying for you , sweetheart.
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My dr with my first dd stripped my membranes without asking too. It did NOT cause me to go into labor though
And with my second pregnancy I got a new dr and refused checks. I'm sorry you feel violated ;( I know how it feels