really upset
So I had my weekly appointment with the same batch who made me feel horrible about my weight and said if we're to gain more, I'll have a c-section. Well she didnt bring up weight today. She did the cervix check, was rude the whole time, and made me feel like poo. She said if I couldn't take getting my cervix checked, I'll need an epidural. Well for one, you made me bleed and two, you were really rough. She told me I'd be spotting today. I even said before, I never wanted her again but they scheduled me with her without telling me.
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She had no right to do that to you.. She needs to be reported. The sweeps only work when both your body and baby are ready for labor.. Soo that being said if your baby or your body are not ready it wont work. My mom didnt want to be induced doctors tried 3 sweeps but nothing happend until 43 weeks and a few day.. (yes i know 43 weeks is alot she was due apr 16 and had my brother until may 9 soo yeah) and went into labor on her own. Lol
I would try to speak with someone higher up than the nurse. I'm a nurse and when people call complaining about one of my Doctors I can't really do much, and also the next appointment you make you need to clarify that you no longer want to see that doctor and explain why!
So sorry that she didn't explain anything to you!!! That's crazy my OBGYN made me sign a consent form when she was just checking me for a yeast infection. So your doctor is definitely making huge mistakes!!!!
@awesome. It's irregular but i do feel contractions. I've been in and out sleep since i got home around 12 . The on call nurse reported her for me. She put in two reports for her being disrespectful and stripping me without consent and another one from her for not letting her nor my actual doctor knowing so the nurse could have been there to explain it to me and asked if i wanted it. She's kinda new to being an OB doctor but doesn't give her the right to do something like that.
It depends on who does the cervical check, I started contractions when I was 35 weeks and went to the ER & that doc was awful rough and I bled bad. I was a fingertip dialated and closed back up within a week and was fine til my water broke at 38+6. It's normal to bleed some after a cervical check. Sorry OP, you shouldn't have a had to deal with all that.
Eta: are you contracting at all?
My doctor that I normally get doesn't hurt, just pressure. But she wiggled around, and stripped me. That was very uncomfortable and I can barely sit I can only lay down.
Thank you ladies. I have reported her in the office earlier, and I'll be reporting again when DF gets home. I had my dad drop me off at DFs due to our air conditioner being wacky lately, it needs to be recharged. He didn't want me getting overheated. I'm more upset about my sister not being here. But if he can wait a bit longer, I'll be happy. If he can't, it's fine.
Ugh I'm so sorry. It's not okay to do anything to anyone without permission. You and your child were essentially violated. She needs to be reported. When you go into labor don't let her deliver the baby. You tell them you won't have her do it. She's not able to be trusted. You need to trust the person bringing your baby into the world. You need to know that they'll listen to you and keep you informed on everything hat is going on. I'm praying for you , sweetheart.
Lol well I didn’t take anyone, they chose me 😘 never said I was black because my baby is mixed 🤷🏼♀️ but okay 👌🏼 😂😂 but she is beautiful though 😍😍
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
tmi i need ur opinions pik in comments! the dr said i was bleeding yesterday after she check for dialation im only 36weeks 4cm. Is this a sign for me to go to the hospital?
Tomorrow my OB is going to start checking my cervix. I've had it checked once when I was around 31 weeks cause I was having mild contractions. It hurt like a b****!!!
Really not looking forward to it like at all. Plus I've been extremely sore down there. At least let me get something out of it. I really REALLY don't want her to check me & im not dilated at all. Knowing me, I'll cry and I don't want to cry for nothing lmao. 😖😖
Thyroid ultrasound.
I went in for my physical today and the dr checked my thyroid. She seemed off when she was checking it and checked it over and over. I have hypothyroid and I'm taking me my meds. I did mention I thought it was low but nothing much. Well she left the room and came. Ack in and said she wanted me to get a thyroid ultrasound as soon as possible because it was pretty enlarged. Has anyone had this done before? What do they look for?
My dr with my first dd stripped my membranes without asking too. It did NOT cause me to go into labor though
And with my second pregnancy I got a new dr and refused checks. I'm sorry you feel violated ;( I know how it feels