I love my (step) dad lol. I've been having a horrible two weeks due to family issues and having to put down my ferret. I…

@gg the mother of my DFs son, her husband, DF and I are all best of friends. Her family had helped me all through out my pregnancy with clothes, a swing, bassinet, a bouncer, etc. All I need is a crib over DFs. I'm very thankful for her and her family and Im so thankful for them. I believe blended families can be a challenge at first, but it's also a blessing. It wasn't a hard transition for SS and I at all. Hes attached to me and I explained to his mother that I'm not trying be his mother, and I will never take her role but I want him see me as his equal and she understands. Everytime I go out, I make sure to get something for SS. I actually bought him two shirts from OC, MD yesterday. Hes not my kid by blood, but blood doesn't determine family.

My dad has 2 daughters & is the only male of 4 kids, he's been surrounded by women his whole life. He always tells me that me having 2 boys is payback lol.

I have a boy and I'm not offended. Because that's a stupid thing to get offended by.

Aw ? I knew I was having a boy since day one lol. But I always wanted a little boy. I wasnt upset nor disappointed im having a little boy. And I wouldn't of been upset about having a little girl. God gave me the gift of having children. I always tell my little brother you can't always get what you want. I grew up around all boys. Instead of playing with Barbies, I was making toy car models with my dad and having burping contests.

What a sweet relationship to have. Sounds like kiddo is in for a fun time at grandpas house. ?

And your comment about being stuck with boys is far from offensive. It honestly shouldn't matter to anyone whether that's how you feel or not. Your talking about your life and no one else's.

We fell in love with Bohdie too before we even knew the gender lol. We had such a strong feeling he was a boy so we picked out only boy names and no girl names and the moment the ultrasound tech said he is a boy, we knew this would be his name. I don't know if it fits him yet (I'll be induced in 32 days) but I think it will fit him perfectly. :)

@hannah I feel in love with Bohdi when my step dad recommended it but DF is sticking with Leo do my next boy will be Bohdi .

It wasn't a hard transition at all for my older sister and I. Believe it or not the first day I met him, He and I shared some twizzlers together like Lady and The Tramp. Ever since, I've been attached to his hip. Also my bio dad, mom, and him are best friends. My parents celebrated their divorce with lunch and my bio dad's family treats my little (half) brother like their own. In our family there is no such thing as step or half; we're all equal. When my bio dad and I come down to Florida to visit, it's dad B (bio dad) and dad J ("step" dad).

Oh man really?!?? I'm totally "stuck with boys" lol. I have 2 little boys. Would I have liked to have a girl of course but wouldn't change my boys for anything in the world.

That's wonderful u are so close to your step dad. I have a step mom and step dad and I'm very close to both of them. I consider myself lucky to have 4 loving parents when other people only have 2.

Op I didn't take any offense to your comment. I don't think people should take it too seriously. So sorry your having some issues right now and I'm sorry to hear about your pet ferret. U are lucky to have a good supportive family member.

Cmon people, let's not get patootie-perturbed

I normally try to ignore it. Sometimes I see the errors with what I post and will correct myself.

Ppl aways try to find ways to turn something our of nothing, if you that sensitive mabe social media is not for you...

And one of my brothers have all boys lol and my other brother has all girls.. and me being the middle child I have 3 girls and 1 boy lol funny how thing happen huh lol , and I think it's awesome how you have such a loving dad .

@belle ok maybe I shouldn't of used the word dumb, but unless you're looking for things to be offended by like pp said, you would know she didn't mean anything by it.

We're naming our son Bohdie. :) My husband actually picked it out and I love the meaning. ?

Unless you're dumb ? okkkkkk

@mommie I literally was about to say the same thing. People nitpick every single thing in every post she makes.

Pp's you all look silly. Of course you love your boys. Unless you're dumb you would know she didn't mean anything by it.

I don't think that's how she meant it, she is not saying she wouldn't love her son or sons any less than you all love yours. I just think it was maybe a poor choice of words. Everything offends everyone, geeze... ?

Why everytime I see one of your post. Someone has to say some negative. Please ladies go take a nap or something. I have all girls, but obviously she didn't come off as rude.

I'm also calling my boy Leo. Hubby got to pick it and wanted to name it after his grandfather.

You can't be serious, saying she'll be "stuck with all boys" is not insulting unless you're looking for something to be offended about.

I can't believe that's what people are taking away from this post. I think it's awesome you have that relationship with your stepdad. It's good to hear positive stories when there are so many negative ones about blended families!

Panties have been twisted. ?

Love my boy ??

I don't like how you said stuck with boys as if it's a bad thing or they are inferior to girls. I'm a mom of boys and couldn't be happier!

@pp I don't mind having all boys. I'm sorry if it was insulting to you. I didn't mean for it to sound like i was upset about it. I'm actually glad with having a little boy and if I have a have another little boy, awesome and if I have a little girl, that's great, I found it ironic that my bio dad has all girls while my aunt has all boys that's why I said that. I would've been more clear I didn't think about it, I'm sorry.